Comments on: Dealing with Family Stuff the Islamic Way

By: Labib

Labib — Sat, 27 Mar 2021 01:34:35 +0000

Salam,

I am confused…how do you resolve familial issues?

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By: Ayra

Ayra — Wed, 22 May 2019 18:36:36 +0000

My husband doesn’t have a job and doesn’t provide for the family even after 4 years of marriage. What should I do in this situation?

By: Robin James Roberts

Robin James Roberts — Wed, 07 Dec 2016 03:33:43 +0000

Allow an answer from me ….who has drifted from the custom of religion
Natures laws will take precedence ….though unwritten ….every other scriptural
Writing will be subject to it …..reason why nothing we have done so far..has proved to help us in the privacy of our homes ….rich and poor celebrity or man in the street …royalty or commoner
Because all of it is based on one or other scripture …..mans every thought and action is really either biblical or similar …..it will not work …because these sayings control us …..and as much as we rever it ….it was written by no other than men like you and I ……believe it or not God has never written one word of it …..go back to the hydrogen atom trace it to today and see how God operated and built the inverse …..magical!….
….. scripture is just incompatible to everything else …..except perhaps the sermon on the mount and a few others

By: cayni

cayni — Wed, 02 Dec 2015 23:26:17 +0000

In reply to Ubah. great stuff! thanks Ubax

By: Ubah

Ubah — Fri, 18 Sep 2015 17:01:29 +0000

In reply to Anon sister. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. May Allah (SWT) grant you and your family ease, ameen.

By: Anon sister

Anon sister — Mon, 07 Sep 2015 13:18:54 +0000

Yes, unfortunately I have dreamt of a perfect family, many times. My siblings and I have witnessed our father’s abuse on our mother, and oh how powerless we felt. There is no 911 in our country. The cheating, the lies, the violence, we even felt like orphans sometimes, because our father had no time for us. He was surrounded by “friends” who encouraged him to sin and transgress, “friends” who are supposedly “religious” 🙁 subhanAllah.

So recently my dad has been convicted in jail for a crime that he did not commit, related to his job. But we as a family believe it’s a mercy for us. Our prayers were answered. Dad is paying for having been unjust to us. Allah ws a witness to all of the things that happened behind closed doors. We love our dad very much, but we want him to reflect on his mistakes and change.

As for marriage, I have heard so many horror stories, and witnessed so much husbands’ abuse on their wives, that I myself I’m getting scared of getting married sometimes. I understand no marriage is perfect, but am I supposed to lower my expectations when asking for a good spouse in my duas? 🙁

By: Sister F

Sister F — Mon, 07 Sep 2015 13:05:02 +0000

In reply to Hussain. Salaam brother Hussain, I beg to differ. In surah 26, Ibrahim (AS) makes dua to Allah swt and asks Him to guide his father, because he had gone astray. The qur'an clearly narrates that Ibrahim (AS)'s father worshipped idols. Allah knows best. :)

By: Hussain

Hussain — Fri, 04 Sep 2015 11:26:46 +0000

MashaAllah, It’s nice.

Small correction regarding Ibrahim father – he was his uncle not father. Allah(Swt) kept Prophets Mohammad (PBUH) lineage away from idol worship.

Thanks
Hussain.

By: Ubah

Ubah — Sat, 29 Aug 2015 21:32:05 +0000

In reply to Ubah. *Ameen.