If she becomes muslim not for you,but for believing by her heart that none is worthy for worship but Allah n MUHAMMAD(s.a.w) is his slave n messenger….then you can marry her….rest ALLAH knows best.

In islam there is no high n low cast in the sight of Allah, one who is strong in tawheed n in taqwa is higher then one who is lessser in it in the sight of Allah…it is we people who follow high n low cast but islam does not support it..but yes islam does not support affair too, if you like any girl who is good in faith n in taqwa you should very soon send invitation of nikaah to her family with out delaying it….rest Allah knows best

Well if parents r forcing that is bad but dont pray bad for them by saying “Allah will enquire for what they did”…instead pray may almighty forgive them n give the victem passions…

I also have the same problem nowadays after my studies I wanted to get married with my best friend but the problem is “cast”. His parents won´t let us get married cause we belong from different casts.

I also told my parents about my best friend but when they hear that he is from another cast they changed their mind and said it´s not possible.

What shall we do? How can we change our parents view of thinking?

Thanks in advance.

I agreed my brother

All Muslim brother and sister requested avoid the using your surname or family name. don’t say you are Sayed, Shaikh, Khan, Pathan, Siddiqui etc.. You all are Muslim and follow one Quran and one Allah so we all are equal, don’t follow any thing except this.

I would disagree with you ,
This does not fall under disobedience of your parents.
Shariah gave this right to girl or boy to accept or reject not parents.
Islam is definite on the right of everyone please, refer to right of parents in islam and childern.
and please educate your own children and sisters.
Dont kill yourself and your children with differences like this.

Look, Marriages governs on 3 factors
Wali, Your family (parents) , Qadhi (the one who governs the nikah, and two witnesses.
Now your wali’s Role is to inspect the proposal. They have no right to approve your wedding.
therefore, Consider your will upon your parents. because they should understand you are going to spend your life with that guy not parents.
this is Allah order to parents too.
I am also going through same situation currently, as far as i have to know islamic rulling i have found so much relating with shariah!
In islam , there aint no caste system.
these social myths to our poor and even educated society.
I feel very sorry for parents and brothers who kill their daughters will and soul for the sake of their Nose and their ego. Allah will surely enquire for their Olad mistreament.
May Allah guide you right.
Ameen

That’s what I was wandering. I am a shia Syed shah and I am wandering would I be able to get married to a shia raja 🙂