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		By: Kirana		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[There is great wisdom in the statement that Islam is the religion of the middle way. There&#039;s so much of paradox in our religion. That we are sent to and are of this world, *yet* this isn&#039;t where we belong. That we are to devote ourselves fully to God&#039;s worship, yet this is expected to mostly take place *within* civilisation and community interaction, not outside of it. That to realise the purpose of our existence we must achieve awareness of the reality of this world and all its imperfection, normally eliciting grief and despair, and *yet* the outcome should be that we can and must nonetheless smile. How can that be, right? I would say it&#039;s impossible, except that we *know* it has been achieved, by a considerable number of people whose diversity spans human variation, and there are still those who continue to achieve this state. 

I think this is why the Qur&#039;an repeats so often, that we must think. When we can understand/accept/embrace/solve these riddles, get ourselves to that sweet spot from where these dichotomies suddenly make sense, that&#039;s where our deen is. 

humans&#039; mistake (not just in religion, but in a lot of things) is that we tend to believe when something isn&#039;t going right for a long while, trying ever harder is the answer. locally, our preachers are of two kinds, the minority like imam suhaib, but the majority the opposite - somehow believing that since the condition of the people is not getting better by their own measure, lecturing louder, being stricter, etc. will fix it. but i find that oftentimes in such cases, not trying hard enough is not the issue - not trying *smart* is. kind of like pushing on a &#039;pull&#039; door, huffing and puffing, possibly even irreparably breaking the door, when if one were to pause a minute and consider that maybe the understanding of the problem was wrong, one might realise the little &#039;pull&#039; sticker by the handle, and then only a little effort is enough.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is great wisdom in the statement that Islam is the religion of the middle way. There&#8217;s so much of paradox in our religion. That we are sent to and are of this world, *yet* this isn&#8217;t where we belong. That we are to devote ourselves fully to God&#8217;s worship, yet this is expected to mostly take place *within* civilisation and community interaction, not outside of it. That to realise the purpose of our existence we must achieve awareness of the reality of this world and all its imperfection, normally eliciting grief and despair, and *yet* the outcome should be that we can and must nonetheless smile. How can that be, right? I would say it&#8217;s impossible, except that we *know* it has been achieved, by a considerable number of people whose diversity spans human variation, and there are still those who continue to achieve this state. </p>
<p>I think this is why the Qur&#8217;an repeats so often, that we must think. When we can understand/accept/embrace/solve these riddles, get ourselves to that sweet spot from where these dichotomies suddenly make sense, that&#8217;s where our deen is. </p>
<p>humans&#8217; mistake (not just in religion, but in a lot of things) is that we tend to believe when something isn&#8217;t going right for a long while, trying ever harder is the answer. locally, our preachers are of two kinds, the minority like imam suhaib, but the majority the opposite &#8211; somehow believing that since the condition of the people is not getting better by their own measure, lecturing louder, being stricter, etc. will fix it. but i find that oftentimes in such cases, not trying hard enough is not the issue &#8211; not trying *smart* is. kind of like pushing on a &#8216;pull&#8217; door, huffing and puffing, possibly even irreparably breaking the door, when if one were to pause a minute and consider that maybe the understanding of the problem was wrong, one might realise the little &#8216;pull&#8217; sticker by the handle, and then only a little effort is enough.</p>
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		By: 2012 Year in Review: SuhaibWebb.com		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34567</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2013 15:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Be Happy by Reehab Ramadan Rather than focusing on the dreary side of things, pick out smile-worthy things that are right before your eyes. And be happy, genuinely happy. It’s Sunnah! [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Be Happy by Reehab Ramadan Rather than focusing on the dreary side of things, pick out smile-worthy things that are right before your eyes. And be happy, genuinely happy. It’s Sunnah! [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: 2012 Year in Review: SuhaibWebb.com		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34566</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2013 13:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Be Happy by Reehab Rammadan [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Be Happy by Reehab Rammadan [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: hazleen		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34565</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 14:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow! There are so many soleh people and good articles over here.Thanks.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! There are so many soleh people and good articles over here.Thanks.</p>
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		By: Sara		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34564</link>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Apr 2012 17:57:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This article is of so much help. Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article is of so much help. Thank you.</p>
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		By: muslimah		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34563</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 07:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[SubhanaAllah.....In addition to all th beautiful things said...Smile...makes you always avoid the wrinkles---stay younger...Alhamdulillah]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SubhanaAllah&#8230;..In addition to all th beautiful things said&#8230;Smile&#8230;makes you always avoid the wrinkles&#8212;stay younger&#8230;Alhamdulillah</p>
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		By: Hannah		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 07:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34549&quot;&gt;M&lt;/a&gt;.

Asalamualaykum! I agree with Reehab. I neglected learning the seerah of the Messenger of Allah and found that after taking time to do this over the years my outlook on life has been much more positive, clear, and full of thankfulness. May Allah guide us.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34549">M</a>.</p>
<p>Asalamualaykum! I agree with Reehab. I neglected learning the seerah of the Messenger of Allah and found that after taking time to do this over the years my outlook on life has been much more positive, clear, and full of thankfulness. May Allah guide us.</p>
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		By: Farook		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 05:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Very nice]]></description>
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		By: Nida`		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34560</link>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 12:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I needed this reminder, jazakillah khayr!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I needed this reminder, jazakillah khayr!</p>
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		By: Aziza		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34559</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 16:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34547&quot;&gt;Aziza&lt;/a&gt;.

Hey my name is Aziza too! Hahaha.
I love this article soooo much. Let&#039;s smile O Ummah of Muhammad (pbuh)! &#060;3]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/be-happy/#comment-34547">Aziza</a>.</p>
<p>Hey my name is Aziza too! Hahaha.<br />
I love this article soooo much. Let&#8217;s smile O Ummah of Muhammad (pbuh)! &lt;3</p>
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