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		By: Maal Hijrah – Fingers Delirium		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maal Hijrah – Fingers Delirium]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 00:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] 3. Check yourself before you wreck yourself [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] 3. Check yourself before you wreck yourself [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: hellow0rld		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 21:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Maulana Shah Hakeem Akhtar Saheb (HA), a Pakistani scholar very knowledgeable in the science of the purification of the heart, gave this advice: I consider myself the lowest amongst all Muslims, because I don&#039;t know what good action they did that was accepted by Allah (SWT). And, in terms of the end, I consider myself lower than non-Muslims, since maybe they will be guided and enter Paradise, and my own destination is not guaranteed.

Therefore, whenever we see another Muslim, we should think of him/her to be better than us, because we don&#039;t know what he/she did that was accepted by Allah (SWT). (We also don&#039;t know if Allah SWT has accepted any of our actions - there&#039;s no guarantee for this.) Also, whenever we see a non-Muslim, we should think of him/her to be better than us in terms of the end, since maybe he/she will be guided and enter Jannat, whereas there&#039;s no guarantee we will enter Jannat.

As a brother who went to college wearing a thobe and kufi (Islamic cap), I know what you mean, sister. However, the decision to start representing myself Islamically actually made me fear arrogance and riyaa&#039; (showing off) even more. It made me make du&#039;aa that Allah (SWT) forgives me for not representing Islam in the best possible manner. In fact, the decision to change my outside actually had the effect of changing my inside more than my outside. (I never realized how much changing one&#039;s outer appearance to conform to the sunnah can have an impact on one&#039;s inside.) Ultimately, I&#039;ve concluded that improving one&#039;s outside can have a positive effect on one&#039;s inside. However, the decision to improve one&#039;s outside should be with complete sincerity (ikhlaas) and should come completely and unquestionably from one&#039;s inside.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maulana Shah Hakeem Akhtar Saheb (HA), a Pakistani scholar very knowledgeable in the science of the purification of the heart, gave this advice: I consider myself the lowest amongst all Muslims, because I don&#8217;t know what good action they did that was accepted by Allah (SWT). And, in terms of the end, I consider myself lower than non-Muslims, since maybe they will be guided and enter Paradise, and my own destination is not guaranteed.</p>
<p>Therefore, whenever we see another Muslim, we should think of him/her to be better than us, because we don&#8217;t know what he/she did that was accepted by Allah (SWT). (We also don&#8217;t know if Allah SWT has accepted any of our actions &#8211; there&#8217;s no guarantee for this.) Also, whenever we see a non-Muslim, we should think of him/her to be better than us in terms of the end, since maybe he/she will be guided and enter Jannat, whereas there&#8217;s no guarantee we will enter Jannat.</p>
<p>As a brother who went to college wearing a thobe and kufi (Islamic cap), I know what you mean, sister. However, the decision to start representing myself Islamically actually made me fear arrogance and riyaa&#8217; (showing off) even more. It made me make du&#8217;aa that Allah (SWT) forgives me for not representing Islam in the best possible manner. In fact, the decision to change my outside actually had the effect of changing my inside more than my outside. (I never realized how much changing one&#8217;s outer appearance to conform to the sunnah can have an impact on one&#8217;s inside.) Ultimately, I&#8217;ve concluded that improving one&#8217;s outside can have a positive effect on one&#8217;s inside. However, the decision to improve one&#8217;s outside should be with complete sincerity (ikhlaas) and should come completely and unquestionably from one&#8217;s inside.</p>
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		By: sara		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sara]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2011 15:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[wow this article made me cry...it is so true..just because you wear a hijab dosn&#039;t make you better then the one who dosn&#039;t..i am just speechless from this article. Thank you for sharing..we need more open minded people like this!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow this article made me cry&#8230;it is so true..just because you wear a hijab dosn&#8217;t make you better then the one who dosn&#8217;t..i am just speechless from this article. Thank you for sharing..we need more open minded people like this!</p>
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		By: sonum		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sonum]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 May 2011 04:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[SubhanAllah an amazing article with wonderful language, May Allah forgive our sins and make us stronger in faith. Ameen.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SubhanAllah an amazing article with wonderful language, May Allah forgive our sins and make us stronger in faith. Ameen.</p>
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		By: 2010 in Review: Full List		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[2010 in Review: Full List]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 08:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself &#8211; A compelling reminder on the importance of not judging others, humbling ourselves [in our hearts] and renewing our sincerity in all things. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself &#8211; A compelling reminder on the importance of not judging others, humbling ourselves [in our hearts] and renewing our sincerity in all things. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: 2010 Year in Review: Suhaibwebb.com		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[2010 Year in Review: Suhaibwebb.com]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 05:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself &#8211; A compelling reminder on the importance of not judging others, humbling ourselves [in our hearts] and renewing our sincerity in all things. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself &#8211; A compelling reminder on the importance of not judging others, humbling ourselves [in our hearts] and renewing our sincerity in all things. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Alima		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alima]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2010 07:59:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Salaam &#039;alaykum,

MashaAllah,this article is awesome, and as Muslims in the West we need this such reminders. I think the fact that we come from such backgrounds, is a good enough reason to know how it feels like.

As you have to look at the bigger picture, and if Allah waits till the day of Judgement to judge someone, I have no idea why we do it so early on, subhanAllah.

It reminded of this;

Bismillah,

&quot;If you&#039;re protected from a sin it&#039;s only by the guidance of Allah &#039;azza wa jal - and many a times we see people sinning, perhaps Allah puts them through these trials where they fail and then strive to pass, because Allah is testing them as He knows they will get through it.

...And perhaps Allah is not putting you through this test, because He knows you won&#039;t be able to pass it.

Hence, people are being tested and this is between them and Allah, it is your job to hate the sin and not judge them based on it, as perhaps Allah really does love them more than you - even though they&#039;re state is worser than yours on the onset.

...in regards to you - it&#039;s all that goes on the inside&quot;﻿

This is a reminder of a dear sister of mine - alhamdulillah.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salaam &#8216;alaykum,</p>
<p>MashaAllah,this article is awesome, and as Muslims in the West we need this such reminders. I think the fact that we come from such backgrounds, is a good enough reason to know how it feels like.</p>
<p>As you have to look at the bigger picture, and if Allah waits till the day of Judgement to judge someone, I have no idea why we do it so early on, subhanAllah.</p>
<p>It reminded of this;</p>
<p>Bismillah,</p>
<p>&#8220;If you&#8217;re protected from a sin it&#8217;s only by the guidance of Allah &#8216;azza wa jal &#8211; and many a times we see people sinning, perhaps Allah puts them through these trials where they fail and then strive to pass, because Allah is testing them as He knows they will get through it.</p>
<p>&#8230;And perhaps Allah is not putting you through this test, because He knows you won&#8217;t be able to pass it.</p>
<p>Hence, people are being tested and this is between them and Allah, it is your job to hate the sin and not judge them based on it, as perhaps Allah really does love them more than you &#8211; even though they&#8217;re state is worser than yours on the onset.</p>
<p>&#8230;in regards to you &#8211; it&#8217;s all that goes on the inside&#8221;﻿</p>
<p>This is a reminder of a dear sister of mine &#8211; alhamdulillah.</p>
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		By: Ahmed		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ahmed]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 01:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ma&#039;sha&#039;allah, this was a very useful and relevant article for all of us. We are all at different stages in our journey, each of us face our own struggles in different aspects of the Faith, so I think this is a good reminder for us to recall our own struggles and realize that others, regardless of how they may appear to us on the outside, that we are facing struggles whether they may be obvious to the naked eye or not. Jazak&#039;Allahu Khairan. Onto Part 2 :-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ma&#8217;sha&#8217;allah, this was a very useful and relevant article for all of us. We are all at different stages in our journey, each of us face our own struggles in different aspects of the Faith, so I think this is a good reminder for us to recall our own struggles and realize that others, regardless of how they may appear to us on the outside, that we are facing struggles whether they may be obvious to the naked eye or not. Jazak&#8217;Allahu Khairan. Onto Part 2 🙂</p>
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		By: Fatima		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fatima]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 18:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This was a wonderful article. You see I am not a hijabbi and always felt hijabbis judge me and appreciate that not all are like that. It;s very difficult for those who are not into the deen as much as yourself or another sister or brother to approach Muslims such as your self because we feel judged. But you hit it on the nail, I have my reasons for not wearing the Hijab, but there are other things that i fall prey to but struggle internally everyday. Sincerely, trying to be a better Muslim.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was a wonderful article. You see I am not a hijabbi and always felt hijabbis judge me and appreciate that not all are like that. It;s very difficult for those who are not into the deen as much as yourself or another sister or brother to approach Muslims such as your self because we feel judged. But you hit it on the nail, I have my reasons for not wearing the Hijab, but there are other things that i fall prey to but struggle internally everyday. Sincerely, trying to be a better Muslim.</p>
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		By: sana		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 11:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this excellent reminder =)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this excellent reminder =)</p>
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