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		By: Luxury		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Luxury]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jan 2025 14:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I learned so much from this. Thank you for sharing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I learned so much from this. Thank you for sharing.</p>
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		By: Mam		</title>
		<link>https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-139884</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2015 21:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-90970&quot;&gt;dya&lt;/a&gt;.

Try to get yourself a better man who understand the deen more widely]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-90970">dya</a>.</p>
<p>Try to get yourself a better man who understand the deen more widely</p>
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		By: Dealing with Divorce: Getting Through Your `Iddah &#124; Virtual Mosque		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dealing with Divorce: Getting Through Your `Iddah &#124; Virtual Mosque]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2015 04:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] with Divorce Series: Part I &#124;Part II &#124; Part III &#124; Part [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		By: dya		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[dya]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2015 11:42:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-90895&quot;&gt;fahtimah&lt;/a&gt;.

Salam waleykum Fahtima,
Barakallahou fiki sister for your comment,

these were my same arguments, but Allah has decided that it is better that we divorce. Allah knows what is best for all of us. 
I was trying to save my marriage, but no compromises wanted to be done on his part. 

Thank you sister Jazakallaou Khairan]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-90895">fahtimah</a>.</p>
<p>Salam waleykum Fahtima,<br />
Barakallahou fiki sister for your comment,</p>
<p>these were my same arguments, but Allah has decided that it is better that we divorce. Allah knows what is best for all of us.<br />
I was trying to save my marriage, but no compromises wanted to be done on his part. </p>
<p>Thank you sister Jazakallaou Khairan</p>
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		By: fahtimah		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[fahtimah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2015 08:01:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-88556&quot;&gt;dya&lt;/a&gt;.

35 hadith found in &#039;Shortening the Prayers (At-Taqseer)&#039; of Sahih Bukhari.
 192 

 Narrated Ibn &#039;Umar: The Prophet said, &quot;A woman should not travel for more than three days except with a Dhi-Mahram (i.e. a male with whom she cannot marry at all, e.g. her brother, father, grandfather, etc.) or her own husband.)&quot;  

 193 

 Narrated Ibn&#039;Umar: The Prophet said, &quot;A woman should not travel for more than three days except with a Dhi-Mahram.&quot;  

 194 

 Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, &quot;It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel for one day and night except with a Mahram.&quot; 

Right babes that&#039;s all of them the divorce has no basis and I&#039;m a convert I travel 48miles and back from my mums not an issue 5 hours isn&#039;t even half a day and if you stay their family so your going to your residence so it&#039;s actually only five hours]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-88556">dya</a>.</p>
<p>35 hadith found in &#8216;Shortening the Prayers (At-Taqseer)&#8217; of Sahih Bukhari.<br />
 192 </p>
<p> Narrated Ibn &#8216;Umar: The Prophet said, &#8220;A woman should not travel for more than three days except with a Dhi-Mahram (i.e. a male with whom she cannot marry at all, e.g. her brother, father, grandfather, etc.) or her own husband.)&#8221;  </p>
<p> 193 </p>
<p> Narrated Ibn&#8217;Umar: The Prophet said, &#8220;A woman should not travel for more than three days except with a Dhi-Mahram.&#8221;  </p>
<p> 194 </p>
<p> Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, &#8220;It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel for one day and night except with a Mahram.&#8221; </p>
<p>Right babes that&#8217;s all of them the divorce has no basis and I&#8217;m a convert I travel 48miles and back from my mums not an issue 5 hours isn&#8217;t even half a day and if you stay their family so your going to your residence so it&#8217;s actually only five hours</p>
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		By: dya		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[dya]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2015 16:33:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Salam Waleykum wa rhamatoullahi wa barakatou brothers and sisters,

I am presently going through a divorce now. My husband divorced me because he do not want me to travel without a Mahram to visit my family who lives 5 hours from my home town. I converted about 3 years now and still learning my religion, I got married 2 months ago and my husband live in another country and I live in Canada, we were in the preparations of getting him here to Canada, when one day I wanted to visit my family and he said no there is a Hadith that says that women are not allowed to travel without a marham, ok which I agree with him, but thinking that he would understand that this is very difficult for me because I want to see my family and I do not have a marham here with me because I live alone in this city, I just moved here 6 moths ago and have no friends or family near me. But he explain lots of time to me his point and I explained mine and because of that we could not come to an agreement and he said that he did not want to force me and did not want to stop me from seeing my family but could not disobey Allah and His messenger therefore he divorced me. I do not want to divorce and also I still want to see my family, the solution would be to wait until he comes here to Canada inchaa Allah if everything goes well, but that meaning months 
Please if someone have an advice......]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salam Waleykum wa rhamatoullahi wa barakatou brothers and sisters,</p>
<p>I am presently going through a divorce now. My husband divorced me because he do not want me to travel without a Mahram to visit my family who lives 5 hours from my home town. I converted about 3 years now and still learning my religion, I got married 2 months ago and my husband live in another country and I live in Canada, we were in the preparations of getting him here to Canada, when one day I wanted to visit my family and he said no there is a Hadith that says that women are not allowed to travel without a marham, ok which I agree with him, but thinking that he would understand that this is very difficult for me because I want to see my family and I do not have a marham here with me because I live alone in this city, I just moved here 6 moths ago and have no friends or family near me. But he explain lots of time to me his point and I explained mine and because of that we could not come to an agreement and he said that he did not want to force me and did not want to stop me from seeing my family but could not disobey Allah and His messenger therefore he divorced me. I do not want to divorce and also I still want to see my family, the solution would be to wait until he comes here to Canada inchaa Allah if everything goes well, but that meaning months<br />
Please if someone have an advice&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		By: Zohra		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Zohra]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2015 05:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-70309&quot;&gt;Rita&lt;/a&gt;.

As salamualaikum,

I am denied the right of being his wife, he always has some excuses for everything. I have to earn on my own and lead my life, do everything by my own, he has no concern towards me and family, he does nt even speak properly.
His sister supports him saying he has no experience for anything. He had a girl friend before  and this i got to know after our marriage. I ignored this saying that it was his past. He says he doesnt have any feelings for me but is not ready to leave me either(thinking of his image in society).
My mother in law always tries to explain him and he hasnt changed till now ( i guess nor will he change)
I am waiting for Allah guidance through his hardship and hope for a better future.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-70309">Rita</a>.</p>
<p>As salamualaikum,</p>
<p>I am denied the right of being his wife, he always has some excuses for everything. I have to earn on my own and lead my life, do everything by my own, he has no concern towards me and family, he does nt even speak properly.<br />
His sister supports him saying he has no experience for anything. He had a girl friend before  and this i got to know after our marriage. I ignored this saying that it was his past. He says he doesnt have any feelings for me but is not ready to leave me either(thinking of his image in society).<br />
My mother in law always tries to explain him and he hasnt changed till now ( i guess nor will he change)<br />
I am waiting for Allah guidance through his hardship and hope for a better future.</p>
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		By: Zohra		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Zohra]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2015 04:26:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/dealing-with-divorce-reading-recommendations/#comment-68961&quot;&gt;Mariam Ahmed&lt;/a&gt;.

Mam,

Thank you for your advice.]]></description>
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<p>Mam,</p>
<p>Thank you for your advice.</p>
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		By: Dealing with Divorce &#124; Virtual Mosque		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dealing with Divorce &#124; Virtual Mosque]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2015 20:09:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] with Divorce Series: Part I &#124; Part II &#124; Part [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] with Divorce Series: Part I | Part II | Part [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Dealing with Divorce: Letting Go &#124; Virtual Mosque		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dealing with Divorce: Letting Go &#124; Virtual Mosque]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2015 20:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] with Divorce Series: Part I &#124; Part II &#124; Part [&#8230;]]]></description>
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