Comments on: Grieving a Loss: Will I Ever Get Over It? https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/ Tue, 19 Aug 2014 07:36:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.4 By: anjum https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35149 Tue, 19 Aug 2014 07:36:23 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35149 Ask I am going through a very bad phase of life,I loved a guy truely but he was from other religion i kw itz azab to marry non muslim but itz hard for me to sustain this & at the same time im facing a horrendous time of my career iam so depressed & asking allah to comfort me but i dont kw wer my deeds so bad I am getting this all,I feel like ending life for this all.dont kw wat to do how to do ? plz pray for me..

]]> By: Sarah https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35148 Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:50:03 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35148 MasyaAllah this article is really beautiful. I’m just 15 and I have depression for 9 months already. It all started when my boyfriend of 3 years left me for someone else. I feel so alone and depressed bcs he was the only source of love I had since my parents are almost rarely at home and they never ask me about my day or anything. I started cuttiing real bad to the extent I have fainted a couple of times because of it. The break up really killed me as it was a long term relationship. I still cry over him and I find it extremely hard to move on. Please help.

]]> By: Non-Muslim who believes you https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35147 Sun, 05 Aug 2012 06:58:07 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35147 Recently I was hurt by a friend whom I got to know on the net. He is a Muslim guy from Pakistan and I re

]]> By: Yeah! I know i am doing a right thing now. :) « This is my territory! https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35146 Sun, 17 Jun 2012 02:51:30 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35146 […] Grieving a Loss: Will I Ever Get Over It? […]

]]> By: A. https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35145 Mon, 11 Jun 2012 16:58:25 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35145 i cried reading it. I dont know why!
but jazakillah e khair !!

]]> By: Ni https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35144 Wed, 06 Jun 2012 18:16:51 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35144 JazakAllah Khair for this article. I experienced a loss late last year, and as I was reading this article, I could totally relate to the 5 stages of grief. Alhmudullillah, I am now in stage 5, and am very optimistic for the future, Inshallah.

I agree with the statement that it may even take several months to move forward…one advise I can give to people is to never loose hope.

]]> By: muslimah https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35143 Wed, 06 Jun 2012 14:01:25 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35143 In reply to AK.

assalamu alaikkum, so very true. People who have been rejected or ignored, will be most sensitive and
compassionate towards others.

]]> By: Imaan https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35142 Mon, 04 Jun 2012 23:09:49 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35142 In reply to Stefani.

Dearest Sister, I understand that losing any parent, especially one with whom we have a strong connection with is both painful and shocking to our system. SubhanAllah we see outrparents as such heroes and we attach ourselves to their wisdom and comfort, therefore when we they are gone it is part of our fitrah to feel a great sense of loss. However it also provides us with the opportunity to remember our purpose in this life and how short our time is in the dunya. Then we recognise the relationship with our parents is a mercy from Allah and that it’s the only constant one we will have so we should strive to strengthen it inshAllah.

It is from the haq of your husband to remind you the grieving period in Islam is only a few days; as your husband it is his duty to encourage you in the good and remind you of what the deen asks of you; this does not neccessarily mean that he is unappreciative orlf your mother (may Allah have mercy on her) nor does it mean he doesn’t love her. Rather use his ability to come to terms with the death of your mother as an example for you, try praying salah together and make dua for her together because indeed the dua f a child for there deceased parents will be answered and it may be a means for you to come closer together. Wa Allahu alam. I hope you find this of benefit inshAllah.
Please note that any error or offence you find my reply is from my human weakness so please forgive me inshAllah.

]]> By: mohammed https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35141 Mon, 21 May 2012 07:22:19 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35141 Assalamualikum,

Jazakkallahu khair for all those working behind this.
I am going thru the situation discussed in the article.
After reading this I am really happy that Allah is helping me a lot to recover from my situation.Alhamdulillah for every thing.
This situation make me to learn patience , forgivness and everything for the sake of Allah.
Working hard to make Allah happy for me, Please include me in your duas.And i will keep in touch with this site in future insha allah.

]]> By: Eman https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/overcoming-hardships/grieving-a-loss-will-i-ever-get-over-it/#comment-35140 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 20:57:09 +0000 http://www.virtualmosque.com/?p=19797#comment-35140 MashaAllaah, jazakillaahu khair Amal

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