As’Salaam’Walaikum UmmIbraheem and to everyone; I hope you all are well.

I don’t think it’s a just, accurate and healthy analogy to compare the experience of your child birth; or child birth in general…to the punishment one may receive in the grave.

Actually; I see that kind of analogy as being morbid. Many people of other faiths and sects within a faith (i.e. Christianity) for example; say that the kind of pain associated with childbirth is a “punishment” passed onto women for eternity for what Eve did by tempting Adam to eat the apple from the tree.

Of course that is their interpretation and I’m relaying it. And that interpretation is against what Islam’s view is of Prophet Adam, of Eve and the unfolding of the events surrounding them and after. That is why I’m saying that is inaccurate and wrong to associate the kind of pain experienced during childbirth to something like the punishment of the grave (if someone receives it…because of course the grave will be cool, spacious and comfortable for those that are shown mercy by Allah (SWT).