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		By: Ar-Rahman, ar-Raheem, ar-Ra’uf: The Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful, the Most Kind		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ar-Rahman, ar-Raheem, ar-Ra’uf: The Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful, the Most Kind]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2014 04:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] have explored the issue of calamities in these two articles: Why am I tested? And Will you turn away? So I will be brief [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] have explored the issue of calamities in these two articles: Why am I tested? And Will you turn away? So I will be brief [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: RLB		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Aug 2013 06:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this article! I was/am having something of a &#039;crisis of faith&#039; and was on the very verge of turning away. In fact, I was deleting all my Muslim bookmarks and saw this one, &quot;Will you turn away&quot;? and I decided to read it. I&#039;m glad I did. I will pray for help and I humbly ask for prayers as well. I don&#039;t want to go into a lot of detail so I hope it will suffice to say that I am having some real problems right now and it is severely testing my faith.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this article! I was/am having something of a &#8216;crisis of faith&#8217; and was on the very verge of turning away. In fact, I was deleting all my Muslim bookmarks and saw this one, &#8220;Will you turn away&#8221;? and I decided to read it. I&#8217;m glad I did. I will pray for help and I humbly ask for prayers as well. I don&#8217;t want to go into a lot of detail so I hope it will suffice to say that I am having some real problems right now and it is severely testing my faith.</p>
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		By: Ali Alkanawy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jul 2013 16:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Love with all of ur heart but depend only on Allah.
Thanks alot Sr. Jinan, jazakillahu khayr]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love with all of ur heart but depend only on Allah.<br />
Thanks alot Sr. Jinan, jazakillahu khayr</p>
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		By: Fatima		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fatima]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jul 2013 14:56:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29648&quot;&gt;Jinan&lt;/a&gt;.

Jazaki Allahu Khair for clearing my confusions. Your last reply really hit home, my questions is finally at rest. May Allah reward you abundantly in this life and the next.

Ps:the reply button disappeared for the original thread of comments, so I&#039;ll just post my comment here.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29648">Jinan</a>.</p>
<p>Jazaki Allahu Khair for clearing my confusions. Your last reply really hit home, my questions is finally at rest. May Allah reward you abundantly in this life and the next.</p>
<p>Ps:the reply button disappeared for the original thread of comments, so I&#8217;ll just post my comment here.</p>
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		By: Jinan		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 22:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29640&quot;&gt;Sithara&lt;/a&gt;.

Exactly :) Thank you for your thoughts.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29640">Sithara</a>.</p>
<p>Exactly 🙂 Thank you for your thoughts.</p>
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		By: Jinan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jinan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 21:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29646&quot;&gt;Fatima&lt;/a&gt;.

Salaam Fatima,

I think there is a misunderstanding. The lesson I was talking about was dealing with injustice. That&#039;s not to say that the purpose of the event was the lesson. But the lesson should be a by-product so that it doesn&#039;t happen again.

You asked &quot;what is her fault?&quot; But bad things don&#039;t have to happen because it is someone&#039;s fault. If I am driving recklessly and run someone over, that person is not at fault. I am. Allah is not necessarily punishing that person or anything like that. That is not how we interpret every bad thing that happens. Not every bad thing that happens is Allah&#039;s punishment upon someone.

Allah tells us in the Qur&#039;an &quot;And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked. For what sin she was killed&quot; [Qur&#039;an, 81:8-9]. So abuse of children is not new. Allah talks about it in His Holy Book. He gives severe punishment for those who do it. Like all innocent life that is shattered in this world, there is ultimate justice in the Hereafter.

But just because that is the case, that doesn&#039;t remove the responsibility from us to do something in this world for justice. Again, if something bad happens to an innocent, it is wrong to say or even think that Allah did that to the child because it is the child&#039;s fault. It is our fault for not living as we should be, and unfortunately the innocents pay the price. This is the order of the universe, and it is a logical order.

Allah warns us in the Qur&#039;an so that we take heed. If there is a hole in the ground that I warn you about so that you don&#039;t fall into it, but then you ignore me and fall into it anyway, would you say that I made you fall into it because I warned you? That doesn&#039;t make sense. Allah is far above any analogy, but we apply that same thinking to God.

Finally, I firmly believe that there are some things we will never understand. That doesn&#039;t mean that they don&#039;t make sense. It just means that in our human capacity we do not understand. And thank God for a Hereafter where it will all be explained to us inshAllah.

I hope this helps :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29646">Fatima</a>.</p>
<p>Salaam Fatima,</p>
<p>I think there is a misunderstanding. The lesson I was talking about was dealing with injustice. That&#8217;s not to say that the purpose of the event was the lesson. But the lesson should be a by-product so that it doesn&#8217;t happen again.</p>
<p>You asked &#8220;what is her fault?&#8221; But bad things don&#8217;t have to happen because it is someone&#8217;s fault. If I am driving recklessly and run someone over, that person is not at fault. I am. Allah is not necessarily punishing that person or anything like that. That is not how we interpret every bad thing that happens. Not every bad thing that happens is Allah&#8217;s punishment upon someone.</p>
<p>Allah tells us in the Qur&#8217;an &#8220;And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked. For what sin she was killed&#8221; [Qur&#8217;an, 81:8-9]. So abuse of children is not new. Allah talks about it in His Holy Book. He gives severe punishment for those who do it. Like all innocent life that is shattered in this world, there is ultimate justice in the Hereafter.</p>
<p>But just because that is the case, that doesn&#8217;t remove the responsibility from us to do something in this world for justice. Again, if something bad happens to an innocent, it is wrong to say or even think that Allah did that to the child because it is the child&#8217;s fault. It is our fault for not living as we should be, and unfortunately the innocents pay the price. This is the order of the universe, and it is a logical order.</p>
<p>Allah warns us in the Qur&#8217;an so that we take heed. If there is a hole in the ground that I warn you about so that you don&#8217;t fall into it, but then you ignore me and fall into it anyway, would you say that I made you fall into it because I warned you? That doesn&#8217;t make sense. Allah is far above any analogy, but we apply that same thinking to God.</p>
<p>Finally, I firmly believe that there are some things we will never understand. That doesn&#8217;t mean that they don&#8217;t make sense. It just means that in our human capacity we do not understand. And thank God for a Hereafter where it will all be explained to us inshAllah.</p>
<p>I hope this helps 🙂</p>
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		By: Fatima		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fatima]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 16:28:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29639&quot;&gt;Jinan&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you immensely for trying to clear my confusion.

I understand everything you just said. But what I&#039;m asking is on an individual level. You&#039;re looking at a community as a whole, I&#039;m looking at only that individual child. What is her fault? What is her recompense? I understand us bringing about trouble on ourselves, but why doesn&#039;t Allah punish us directly and us only? Why are these truly innocent ones used to teach us, the ones who really are wrong, lessons?

When I asked a friend this question(but I didn&#039;t mention that I only meant children) she replied that Allah only tries those who He knows are strong enough to bear it. Its a very good answer but I can&#039;t apply it to children.

These questions are from my lack of knowledge only. I just want to understand Allah&#039;s justice for these innocents who couldn&#039;t possibly have sins on them, especially infants and very young children.


Again, Jazakallahu Khair for trying to clear this doubt in my heart.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/reflections/will-you-turn-away/#comment-29639">Jinan</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you immensely for trying to clear my confusion.</p>
<p>I understand everything you just said. But what I&#8217;m asking is on an individual level. You&#8217;re looking at a community as a whole, I&#8217;m looking at only that individual child. What is her fault? What is her recompense? I understand us bringing about trouble on ourselves, but why doesn&#8217;t Allah punish us directly and us only? Why are these truly innocent ones used to teach us, the ones who really are wrong, lessons?</p>
<p>When I asked a friend this question(but I didn&#8217;t mention that I only meant children) she replied that Allah only tries those who He knows are strong enough to bear it. Its a very good answer but I can&#8217;t apply it to children.</p>
<p>These questions are from my lack of knowledge only. I just want to understand Allah&#8217;s justice for these innocents who couldn&#8217;t possibly have sins on them, especially infants and very young children.</p>
<p>Again, Jazakallahu Khair for trying to clear this doubt in my heart.</p>
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		By: Izzy mum		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Izzy mum]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 10:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Salam. May Allah shower His mercy on us.  Having to come to term with real life issues while having absolute faith in Allah&#039;s qada &#038; qadr is a struggle that Muslims will continue to have till the end of time. To accept tat human has limited understanding in Allah&#039;s scheme of things is a step towards sakeenah in your heart.  Sis Fatima, do take Sis Jinan advise: talk to Allah, ask Him for help. I for one had similar experience - born a Muslim and my parents were devout Muslim (May Allah grant them jannah). I attended religious talks, read Quran. Still I qns almost everything. Time passes until i was in a state where i became afraid that i would stray so far that i would loose Allah, nauzubilla minzalik! The turning point was when i decided to do umrah &#038; determine to change my relationship with Allah. Allah is my Lord and I need to accept whatever He decreed as a humble servant. Alhamdulillah sis, with much determination, i would say that Allah granted me my prayer and i am very happy to say that I am now able to accept, smile and see Allah&#039;s greatness in a lot of things, be it good or bad! May you find sakeenah in your heart sister.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salam. May Allah shower His mercy on us.  Having to come to term with real life issues while having absolute faith in Allah&#8217;s qada &amp; qadr is a struggle that Muslims will continue to have till the end of time. To accept tat human has limited understanding in Allah&#8217;s scheme of things is a step towards sakeenah in your heart.  Sis Fatima, do take Sis Jinan advise: talk to Allah, ask Him for help. I for one had similar experience &#8211; born a Muslim and my parents were devout Muslim (May Allah grant them jannah). I attended religious talks, read Quran. Still I qns almost everything. Time passes until i was in a state where i became afraid that i would stray so far that i would loose Allah, nauzubilla minzalik! The turning point was when i decided to do umrah &amp; determine to change my relationship with Allah. Allah is my Lord and I need to accept whatever He decreed as a humble servant. Alhamdulillah sis, with much determination, i would say that Allah granted me my prayer and i am very happy to say that I am now able to accept, smile and see Allah&#8217;s greatness in a lot of things, be it good or bad! May you find sakeenah in your heart sister.</p>
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		By: Shurufa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 03:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Love this.Jazakillah khair sister :))]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love this.Jazakillah khair sister :))</p>
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		By: Anees		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 01:45:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ameen! As always, beautifully written and explained Sr. Jinan! Jazak&#039;Allahu Khairan for the great reminder.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ameen! As always, beautifully written and explained Sr. Jinan! Jazak&#8217;Allahu Khairan for the great reminder.</p>
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