Did you know when Allah dosent give you somthing, he has choosen you too give you somthing else instead. for exempel when allah gives you the understanding of somthing that u lack or cant obtain, his becus he wants too give you certin qualities, for exemple. in pain does one truly appreciate and understand relief . you are being giving so much by allah but you dont relise it yet. in sha allah you will.

In a narration other than that of at-Tirmidhee, it states:

“Be mindful of Allah, you will find him in front of you. Know Allah during times of prosperity, He will know you in times of adversity. Know that what has passed you by was never to befall you. And [know that] what has befallen you was never to have passed you by. And know that victory accompanies perseverance, relief accompanies affliction and ease accompanies hardship”

try doing the oppsite. pray for them instead.

it will make u stronger,better,humanbeing

and allah will reward you

this is the way of prophets

the answer too alll your problems is in the holy quran

you neeed too reflect on it.

We have created man and We know what his inner soul is whispering. We are closer to him than his jugular vein

how could she be the wrong doer and keep silent from you? Ajib?
The only thing I can share with you is. Travel with her. I mean all the family should take vacation together where she doesnt know anyone else except you and your family. before being open to her, all of you has to give her time and be silent when is around. She will think and think about what is wrong with family. She will be desperate to know what is going on. then make a scene that makes her want to talk. laugh or cry.

Insha Allah do not forget praying. dua makes everything easier.

hELLO Estie de Kock

Allah does’t forgive the money you owe for others. he should pay you back no matter what. if not. then he is not a true muslim. prophet Mohamed said ” Manla yashkurin naasa laa yashkulaah” with means who so ever doesnt thanks/ appreciate humanities god deeds never thanked Allah’ hope you can understand my broken eng.

No matter what he will see the punishment here and hereafter. if you do not forgive him or he doesn’t refund back your money with sincere apology. those days, so many people claim that they are Muslim but not acting upon the rules of Islam

hope this helps you
let me know what happened

You are not alone in your feelings. The only suggestion that I can give you is to pray to Allah about going to talk to someone about your thoughts. It is very easy to fall into a slip of depression and to overthink everything when our faith is lacking. Worrying, fear, suspense are all attributes of Satan that Allah does not wish us to have. We are to give our troubles to Him, for only He knows hoe to truly deal with us. It is easy to say that we will truly do these things, but we must remember that the evidence of this comes from the peace we feel within that only Allah can provide from our full faith and confidence in His will! I pray, Insh Allah, that the Lord grants you the understanding to see what an increase of faith can do for your life and the ones around you. Make having faith a daily task, even hourly if you have to! I know all to well the feelings you are having, and I find the most relief and peace when I let the ultimate problem solver help me with my problems. We alone cannot overcome our addictions and our vices. Turn to Allah only when you feel discomfort, and Insh Allah, if you’re actions be sincere, He will hear you and come to your aid. Allah loves an honest and sincere heart with pure intentions! May Allah bless you and your family, Insh Allah!

Assalamu alaikum
Dear sisters
I know I have depression, What I don’t understand is sometimes, I have a WANT to have something wrong with me. Not to die or have a lot of harm come to me but maybe something to get more attention, I’m not sure. I don’t want to die, but I want to know what people would do without me. Most of the time I think of the worst possible thing that could happen to me or sometimes even a loved one, and give myself a panic attack or a asthma attack. Like while passing a car I start imagining getting into a car wreck. I also will think that if I could just stop in the road (while walking)and “get hurt” maybe then people will appreciate me more. The same is true with a medical condition, I want to “have” something majorly wrong with me sometimes, just so people would appreciate me more. I sometimes want to get pregnant just for the attention. Or I think about being “kidnapped” so I can escape. It doesn’t make sense to me. I am consistantly worrying about something. I sometimes feel like a hypocondriact. I take things too personally, and am easily upset. I don’t like the unexpected, but want unexpected things to happen. I don’t like new unless I am in charge of when it happens. I don’t want to be around anyone, yet miss the company of them when I am alone. I feel anger towards others when they have a problem, but hope they get better, and then at the same time I want to have what they have wrong also. I want everything to go my way, but never expect it to.sometimes i see a movie, or read a book and I want to be a certain character in it. So I can experience those same situations. Either bad or good or exciting or suspenseful. I want to have fun, exciting, new, unexpected, dramatic, painful, and horrible things happen to me. But not really. I am scared of change, but welcome it. I overthink everything. Thinking of the worse possible thing that could happen. But then when I really should be thinking what could happen, I don’t. I don’t understand it, it scares me sometimes, and I turn to things to help me get away from it, like alcohol. Sometimes I think i am overexaggerating even about this. I don’t know what to think. It’s like I lie to myself, while at the same time I despise lying. I can’t think of another way to describe it. I like being me but at the same time I hate being me. I do read a islamic articles to self improve myself bt nothing satisfies me . I have always had a very good imagination. I sometimes wish I didn’t have a imagination. Even writing this, I feel like I am being a hypocandiact. I want help, I want a name for whats wrong with me, but at the same time I don’t want to know. I want to be helped, but don’t. I need it I know, but am really scared. I truly think I feel this way, but also think it could be my imgination. Please help. What should I do? Am I a hypocondriact? I really don’t want to be like this. I pray five times daily, read quran and many books on islam n have knowledge on islam . I really dnt like my present situations in my life n i also get irritated from past life .i want to get very close to allah . I m married bt i dint get life spouse thé way i wanted . Bt my husband loves me alot want me to be happy alwayz. Bt i sometimes feel love to him sometimes i dont. Itz bcoz i hate his lifestyle. I really messed up in my life . He keeps saying to b far from tension n live my life. I m not at all intersted in life n dnt want to lead my life. Sometimes i feel i dont want kids . Sometimes i want i feel ver yak n akward in life. I really get restless in life n dnt have taste to live n develop my life. Life is also nt the way i think .many calamities occured in life (quarals, misunderstanding). My husband family is little poor in stage n people started to look in lower gaze and i feel very insulted. I try a lot to get innerpeace . Want to live my life thru islam n make my mind clear .
Plzzzz help me!!!!!!!!

I am a muslimah but unfortunately I fell in love with a christian. I recently went for an islamic class for teenagers in my city. I was feeling guilty and I have no words to express my feeling. Since that day I am not interested in talking with him or meeting him or even seeing him. I want to change my path and repent upon tge sins I committed. I told him openly but he is not willing to leave me. I feel so bad that he is begging I should not leave him. He did cry on phone with me that I should not leave him. But I’m afraid if Allah will punish me for all these sins I did. But I did not do any major sins. I used to talk with him on phone. Exchange some kind of cards and gifts. So I want to leave him what so ever happens. He is so badly hurt. But I doubt if Allah will punish me for hurting him or is it advisable for me to hurt him rather than keep sinning ?