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		By: Nadeem		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2015 16:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Assalam alaykum,

It would be good to know what the Fiqh Academy of Jeddah has to say because it comprises of over 400 scholars from all over the world. This allows for a broader base of scholarly opinions.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalam alaykum,</p>
<p>It would be good to know what the Fiqh Academy of Jeddah has to say because it comprises of over 400 scholars from all over the world. This allows for a broader base of scholarly opinions.</p>
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		By: Shaikh Sajid		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shaikh Sajid]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2015 07:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Akhi kareem Mr. Webb, 

     The reason the scholars of the salaf prohibit new celebrations like birthdays and like Mother&#039;s Day is so that in the future people keep to following the sunnah. The knowledgeable of the salaf enjoin to &quot;advise&quot; in a dignified manner. What should the reaction be if someone continues to refuse to follow the sunnah, that are shuyukh (like yourself) explain to us? By rebuking the lack of devotion to our shuyukh and the message that Allah sent to prophet Muhammed, it would exemplify the knowledge, and debase the whims. Otherwise one would approve of this lack of devotion. You could say that this rebuking is so that the words of our shuyukh prosper in the future. 
When you look at a concept, the branches (furooh) would be like the origin (usool). If the origin is from the guidance of Allah, that is the Quran and the sunnah and the Ilm, the flow of Allah&#039;s message, it will continue to be guidance.  If the origin is not based on that, it would have to go through a great change in order to conform to Allah&#039;s message.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Akhi kareem Mr. Webb, </p>
<p>     The reason the scholars of the salaf prohibit new celebrations like birthdays and like Mother&#8217;s Day is so that in the future people keep to following the sunnah. The knowledgeable of the salaf enjoin to &#8220;advise&#8221; in a dignified manner. What should the reaction be if someone continues to refuse to follow the sunnah, that are shuyukh (like yourself) explain to us? By rebuking the lack of devotion to our shuyukh and the message that Allah sent to prophet Muhammed, it would exemplify the knowledge, and debase the whims. Otherwise one would approve of this lack of devotion. You could say that this rebuking is so that the words of our shuyukh prosper in the future.<br />
When you look at a concept, the branches (furooh) would be like the origin (usool). If the origin is from the guidance of Allah, that is the Quran and the sunnah and the Ilm, the flow of Allah&#8217;s message, it will continue to be guidance.  If the origin is not based on that, it would have to go through a great change in order to conform to Allah&#8217;s message.</p>
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		By: Arif		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Arif]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2015 18:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21911&quot;&gt;sis&lt;/a&gt;.

How will this subtract from our deen? While our deen actually encourages this? What if the non-muslims were inspired by our deen to impliment a &#039;mother&#039;s day&#039; into their annual holiday. I also would not call it a holiday actaully, just a day to remind yourself about the importance of your mother. 

Islam calls for remembering the importance of your parents everyday, however what is wrong with doing something &#039;extra&#039; on this day, or just for the sake of it, the day after mother&#039;s day. It&#039;s simply a label, don&#039;t complicate things. Therefore you cannot say that this takes something away from your deen, as it is most definetly a part of our deen. It&#039;s not like it is something completely strange to our deen.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21911">sis</a>.</p>
<p>How will this subtract from our deen? While our deen actually encourages this? What if the non-muslims were inspired by our deen to impliment a &#8216;mother&#8217;s day&#8217; into their annual holiday. I also would not call it a holiday actaully, just a day to remind yourself about the importance of your mother. </p>
<p>Islam calls for remembering the importance of your parents everyday, however what is wrong with doing something &#8216;extra&#8217; on this day, or just for the sake of it, the day after mother&#8217;s day. It&#8217;s simply a label, don&#8217;t complicate things. Therefore you cannot say that this takes something away from your deen, as it is most definetly a part of our deen. It&#8217;s not like it is something completely strange to our deen.</p>
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		By: Osman Husseini		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Osman Husseini]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2015 11:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21912&quot;&gt;sis&lt;/a&gt;.

Jazahaka&#039;llahu khiran.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21912">sis</a>.</p>
<p>Jazahaka&#8217;llahu khiran.</p>
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		By: Zachary		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Zachary]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2014 15:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21943&quot;&gt;Nuraz Eray&lt;/a&gt;.

There is scholarly consensus (ijma) that ahl al-kitab are kufar. The assertion that they are believers is a modern concept that acknowledges certain ayahs of the Qur&#039;an and ignores a great many asserting otherwise.

This is not a matter of difference of opinion but rather a tenet of faith that no one has challenged until recently. Those that are now doing so in the West usually did not go through the a traditional Islamic education and/or have been influenced by the Salafi &quot;fatwa do-it-yourself&quot; methodology.

May Allah enable us to humbly seek the Truth.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21943">Nuraz Eray</a>.</p>
<p>There is scholarly consensus (ijma) that ahl al-kitab are kufar. The assertion that they are believers is a modern concept that acknowledges certain ayahs of the Qur&#8217;an and ignores a great many asserting otherwise.</p>
<p>This is not a matter of difference of opinion but rather a tenet of faith that no one has challenged until recently. Those that are now doing so in the West usually did not go through the a traditional Islamic education and/or have been influenced by the Salafi &#8220;fatwa do-it-yourself&#8221; methodology.</p>
<p>May Allah enable us to humbly seek the Truth.</p>
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		By: Zachary		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Zachary]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2014 14:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21936&quot;&gt;Imaadh&lt;/a&gt;.

Yasmin is a man&#039;s name. I know two males named Yasmin.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21936">Imaadh</a>.</p>
<p>Yasmin is a man&#8217;s name. I know two males named Yasmin.</p>
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		By: ANMB		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ANMB]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2014 13:29:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21925&quot;&gt;Yasmin Mogahed&lt;/a&gt;.

I wish that the history of Mother&#039;s Day would have been included in the discussion to put it into it&#039;s proper context:

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2014/05/140508-mothers-day-nation-gifts-facts-culture-moms/]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/relationships/marriage-family/parents/can-i-celebrate-mothers-day/#comment-21925">Yasmin Mogahed</a>.</p>
<p>I wish that the history of Mother&#8217;s Day would have been included in the discussion to put it into it&#8217;s proper context:</p>
<p><a href="http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2014/05/140508-mothers-day-nation-gifts-facts-culture-moms/" rel="nofollow ugc">http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2014/05/140508-mothers-day-nation-gifts-facts-culture-moms/</a></p>
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		By: sam		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2014 16:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I never taught my children to celebrate Mother’s Day. It wasn’t one of our holidays as Muslims.I had always believed that every day is a Mother’s Day.Love should be given and received every day throughout the year.

Realistically life doesn’t really work that way and human nature does not allow for that.
We become so engrossed our day to day activities like home chores,washing,cleaning,errands,cooking,etc.Working parents are even busier trying to make ends meet.

Children are busy with school work,studies,sport and social and religious activiies. It is so easy to forget to show special appreciation like a to say a simple &quot;I love you.&quot;Our rat race denies us time to spent with each other,to sit as a family,to hug and get to appreciate one another...

My kids unexpectedly came home from school on Mother’s Day with little gifts in their hands. One had a rose. Another a less expense perfume. A third had a candle. And a fourth had a little teddy bear.
Happy Mother’s Day! the sung and rushed in to hug and kiss me.

It was one of the happiest days of my life and it brought tears to my eyes. It still does. Every year since then, they save up their allowance to get me gifts for Mothers Day.

And those gifts from my kids are priceless and are the ones I cherish the most. One day every year my children conspire to do something special for me. And I love them for it.By the way they love me evey day and so do I.BUT THEY WONT BE ABLE TO GIVE ME PRESENTS EVERY DAY...

To all those ranters and ravers out there, I say chill.
Don’t turn everything into a religious battle because, many times, it simply isn’t.

Yes, Eid is our special day. Yes, love should be expressed every day. And yes, it is also very easy to forget to do that with our busy contemporary lifestyles.

We need to hold onto our own cultures and traditions. But there are things in other cultures that are good as well.

Strike the balance.

Take the positive. Leave the negative or the irrelevant. And celebrate love a little more often.

It is a positive thing to have an annual reminder that your spouse, your parent, or your child deserves that extra bit of extra special attention.

What is even more wonderful is to be able to do it your own way. A way that brings joy rather than stress. A way that builds a family and brings it together.

A little extra special attention can go a long way.Dont deprive Islam and Muslims from being human and to show love.I rather celebrate Mother&#039;s day within the parameters of Islam than kidnap 249 school girls in the name of Islam.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never taught my children to celebrate Mother’s Day. It wasn’t one of our holidays as Muslims.I had always believed that every day is a Mother’s Day.Love should be given and received every day throughout the year.</p>
<p>Realistically life doesn’t really work that way and human nature does not allow for that.<br />
We become so engrossed our day to day activities like home chores,washing,cleaning,errands,cooking,etc.Working parents are even busier trying to make ends meet.</p>
<p>Children are busy with school work,studies,sport and social and religious activiies. It is so easy to forget to show special appreciation like a to say a simple &#8220;I love you.&#8221;Our rat race denies us time to spent with each other,to sit as a family,to hug and get to appreciate one another&#8230;</p>
<p>My kids unexpectedly came home from school on Mother’s Day with little gifts in their hands. One had a rose. Another a less expense perfume. A third had a candle. And a fourth had a little teddy bear.<br />
Happy Mother’s Day! the sung and rushed in to hug and kiss me.</p>
<p>It was one of the happiest days of my life and it brought tears to my eyes. It still does. Every year since then, they save up their allowance to get me gifts for Mothers Day.</p>
<p>And those gifts from my kids are priceless and are the ones I cherish the most. One day every year my children conspire to do something special for me. And I love them for it.By the way they love me evey day and so do I.BUT THEY WONT BE ABLE TO GIVE ME PRESENTS EVERY DAY&#8230;</p>
<p>To all those ranters and ravers out there, I say chill.<br />
Don’t turn everything into a religious battle because, many times, it simply isn’t.</p>
<p>Yes, Eid is our special day. Yes, love should be expressed every day. And yes, it is also very easy to forget to do that with our busy contemporary lifestyles.</p>
<p>We need to hold onto our own cultures and traditions. But there are things in other cultures that are good as well.</p>
<p>Strike the balance.</p>
<p>Take the positive. Leave the negative or the irrelevant. And celebrate love a little more often.</p>
<p>It is a positive thing to have an annual reminder that your spouse, your parent, or your child deserves that extra bit of extra special attention.</p>
<p>What is even more wonderful is to be able to do it your own way. A way that brings joy rather than stress. A way that builds a family and brings it together.</p>
<p>A little extra special attention can go a long way.Dont deprive Islam and Muslims from being human and to show love.I rather celebrate Mother&#8217;s day within the parameters of Islam than kidnap 249 school girls in the name of Islam.</p>
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		By: Sister Margo King		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sister Margo King]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2014 15:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters, in Islam everyday is mother&#039;s day. Mother&#039;s day in the west is a may be a huge thing because of other implications that tell people to buy a gift, a card or hug your mother on that day. For a Muslim everyday is mothers&#039; day hug your mother, treat her well, call her, buy her a gift, cook for her,take her to dinner. Even consider making repairs around her house when she needs them. When the designated day(mothers&#039; day) comes do it even more, give her more kisses,hug and many thanks. Pass it to another member of your family who was a mother figure  and if that is not possible  pass  lt to your father who cared for you, inshallah. Our caregivers  in our  years of youthful training should be reflected upon and say alhamdillilah! There is no debate here about the celebration of Mothers&#039; Day, everyday is mothers&#039; day. Yes, you can celebrate it that is optional, Walaikum salam.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters, in Islam everyday is mother&#8217;s day. Mother&#8217;s day in the west is a may be a huge thing because of other implications that tell people to buy a gift, a card or hug your mother on that day. For a Muslim everyday is mothers&#8217; day hug your mother, treat her well, call her, buy her a gift, cook for her,take her to dinner. Even consider making repairs around her house when she needs them. When the designated day(mothers&#8217; day) comes do it even more, give her more kisses,hug and many thanks. Pass it to another member of your family who was a mother figure  and if that is not possible  pass  lt to your father who cared for you, inshallah. Our caregivers  in our  years of youthful training should be reflected upon and say alhamdillilah! There is no debate here about the celebration of Mothers&#8217; Day, everyday is mothers&#8217; day. Yes, you can celebrate it that is optional, Walaikum salam.</p>
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		By: Nuraz Eray		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nuraz Eray]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Feb 2014 21:58:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Everyone here is saying that western culture is kuffar. A. Christians are Ahl Kittab and so are Jews which makes them not kuffar. B. y&#039;all are talking about tradition bug many Muslims around the world have different traditions. Yall are talking about your culture  and tradition which is different for us who were born and raised in America. Many people heave traditions that aren&#039;t mentioned in the Sunnah. Practicing something that isn&#039;t d
Said to be haram and isn&#039;t detrimental to our deen isn&#039;t bid&#039;ah. Stop saying it is if you do not know.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone here is saying that western culture is kuffar. A. Christians are Ahl Kittab and so are Jews which makes them not kuffar. B. y&#8217;all are talking about tradition bug many Muslims around the world have different traditions. Yall are talking about your culture  and tradition which is different for us who were born and raised in America. Many people heave traditions that aren&#8217;t mentioned in the Sunnah. Practicing something that isn&#8217;t d<br />
Said to be haram and isn&#8217;t detrimental to our deen isn&#8217;t bid&#8217;ah. Stop saying it is if you do not know.</p>
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