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Is Passionate Love in Marriage....Real? - SimpleMuslimWeddings.com — Thu, 27 Mar 2014 03:46:27 +0000

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By: mel

mel — Thu, 09 Jan 2014 07:26:26 +0000

In reply to mel. And also upon reading that very sentence, I instantly broke my tears :D

By: mel

mel — Thu, 09 Jan 2014 07:24:24 +0000

In reply to Accepting Reality. Sister thank you so much for your words: "Allah is greater than a million husband and all the world contains." Powerful reminder :)

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Is Passion in Love and Marriage…Real? | Love, InshAllah — Thu, 29 Aug 2013 16:00:47 +0000

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By: Faiza

Faiza — Thu, 01 Aug 2013 22:07:10 +0000

asssalamualaikum. is there someone to give me insights into the actual rules about how much can u actually talk with a guy who has proposed to u before marriage, since he is a ghair mehram after all. how much of the courtship is allowed. this is really a serious question cos I have been proposed but so far, I just don’t know where to draw the lines, the only thing I’ve done so far is I talk to him sometimes and did istikhara the first time he proposed to me. Help please. cos i often find myself really confused as to whether I am really sinning or not. please enlighten me on this matter

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By: A sister

A sister — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 09:51:25 +0000

as-salam aleykum,

Thank you for this article and the advice.However, what if you don’t find such a man who meets the core criteria? Settle for less? Or stay alone? This is a dilemma I have to deal with. I am in my late twenties, and I feel it is even difficult to find a man interested in talking about things in the article. Expectations and all that. Most men are not that interested to talk much I feel. I don’t really know what to do anymore. I am tired of searching and being alone. I don’t really know what to do if i would choose to stay unmarried all my life. But is it wise to marry someone that does not meet up with your expectations?

By: Sithara

Sithara — Sat, 18 May 2013 08:53:08 +0000

In reply to pt.

As Salamu Alaikum,

That is amazing, Sister pt.

Any advice you can give the rest of us on how you and your husband manage to maintain such a deep level of love, passion and commitment over the years, in fact, even increase it (!) would be very welcome!

May Allah bring you and your husband even closer together and in this life and in the hereafter.

By: muslimah89

muslimah89 — Tue, 07 May 2013 07:36:15 +0000

In reply to Conscience.

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu
Jazakallah khair for this amazing reply brother… May Allah bless u and ur family with tranquility, happpiness and success in this world and the hereafter. yours was a very timely reminder to our ummah to stop running after western fads and instead turn for guidance to the Quran and the sunnah of our beloved PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W). If we just started following the lifestyle of our dearest Prophet, we would never be short of peace in our life insha Allah. Our Prophet (S.A.W) was not only the most compassionate and wonderful human being that walked on the face of earth but also a very gentle, romantic and loving husband who used to help out with the household chores and never spoke harshly to his wives for some silly shortcoming. If a husband and wife would get up and pray fajr salat together and ask Allah for a happy marriage like that of our Prophet and Khadijah (R.A), can you imagine how much barakah there would be in that relationship? Thanks again for your timely advice.

By: pt

pt — Sat, 04 May 2013 22:58:54 +0000

My husband and I met as foreigners in Europe when we were young.
As passionate as our relations were then, the passion has grown over the 25 years we have been married.
I can remember several passionate moments.
The most passionate time I recall was during Ramadan in Umraa in Saudi Arabia. We made tawaf all day (one aspect of religion) and then returned to our room and deeply enjoyed our marital rights. There are several aspects to Islam and to worship. Somehow sex and passion has gotten severed in the quest.
That deep connection and passion is what has allowed us to forgive and get through tough times in our marriage because we know that we will never find this connection in another partner.