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		<title>Start with the Qur&#8217;an</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lecture by Suhaib Webb &#124; Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad Surat Luqman, Qur&#8217;an 31: Part I &#124; Part II &#124; Part III &#124; Part IV The Prophet ﷺ  (peace be upon him) said in a hadith recorded in Bukhari, related by Uthman ibn Affan: “.خيركم من تعلم القرآن و علمه” “The best of you is the one who learns the Qur’an [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Surat Luqman, Qur&#8217;an <a href="http://quran.com/31">31</a>: Part I</strong> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/o-you-who-believe-have-taqwa-of-allah/" target="_blank">Part II</a> <strong>| </strong><a title="You Would See This Mountain Crumble" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/quran/you-would-see-this-mountain-crumble/">Part III</a> | <a title="Every Muslim is a Caller" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/quran/every-muslim-is-a-caller/">Part IV</a></p>
<p>The Prophet ﷺ  (peace be upon him) said in a <i>hadith</i> recorded in Bukhari, related by Uthman ibn Affan:</p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: large;">“.خيركم من تعلم القرآن و علمه” </span></p>
<p>“The best of you is the one who learns the Qur’an and teaches it.”</p>
<p>The word  تَعَلَّمَ  <i>ta`allam</i> is in a form which means <i>takalluf</i> (effort/exertion), meaning that the person struggled to learn the Qur’an, that their learning the Qur’an required effort and difficulty. Similarly, yesterday we talked about nations before us that struggled to carry the Torah. Allah <i>subhanahu wa ta`ala</i> (exalted is He) uses the word <i>hummilu</i> <i>at-Torah (</i>they struggled to carry it).</p>
<p>خيركم <i>khayrukum </i>means the best of the Muslims. This shows that the success, honor, respect and glory of this <i>Ummah</i> is with the book of Allah (swt). That’s why I encourage our brothers and sisters who become Muslim that, after learning prayer and other basics of Islam, they should focus on the Qur’an. Find someone who can teach you the Qur’an. I meet Muslim brothers who tell me all the bad things about a particular scholar. I ask the brother if he can read <i>Surah Fatiha.</i> I find that he cannot even read the Qur’an properly, but he was able to speak about a scholar of Islam. What kind of Islam is this? When the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ  became Muslim, the first thing they concentrated on was Qur’an and how to pray. <i>Alhamdullilah</i> (praise be to God), I thank my teacher in Oklahoma. He was a large man from Senegal. When I became Muslim he grabbed me and he said, “Listen, learn the Qur’an and learn Arabic. Don’t waste your time with groups.” I remember he told me some stories about Senegal that I want to share with you.</p>
<p>First he said: “In my town in Senegal (St. Louis, which is next to Mauritania) if someone amongst the people of knowledge wants to get married he must first memorize the Qur’an, pray <i>taraweeh</i> with the Qur’an and also memorize the <i>Mu’wattah</i> of Imam Maalik.” Of course this is difficult for us today—we have difficulty memorizing the 40 Hadith of Imam Nawawi, but this criteria shows us the level of their study.</p>
<p>Then, my teacher told me that he finished learning the 10 major <i>qiraat</i> (recitations) of the Qur’an and he learned that from his sister. He said, “My father considered the Qur’an to be a simple pre-requisite that had to be done, and so he didn’t teach it to me. My father was busy teaching <i>usool al fiqh</i> (philosophy of Islamic Law), <i>lugha</i> (language), <i>hadith</i> (traditions of the Prophet ﷺ ) etc. My father told me that for the examination to get the real <i>ijaazah</i> (certification) we would be given empty notebooks. Then we had to write from Surat Al-Fatiha to Surat An-Nas in two weeks. Every day you had to write a certain amount of Qur’an, which would then be given to the Sheikh. They read what you write and if you made even one mistake, you don’t get an <i>ijaazah</i>. Just one mistake. I asked my teacher, “Where is your book in which you wrote the Quran?” He said, “No, we don’t keep it. It is a gift for our Sheikh.”</p>
<p>The third story he told me is about his grandfather who was the Mufti of Senegal. He said one day a group of youth came to his grandfather and told him they wanted to study the philosophy of Islamic Law. He said, “No.” They asked, “Why?” He asked them, “How much Qur’an have you memorized?” They replied, “We’ve memorized twelve <i>ajzaa</i> (parts).” He said, “Start with Qur’an. Forget <i>usool al-fiqh</i>.”</p>
<p>The Qur’an is very important, and we should not neglect it. If you have the time and the resources of people available to teach you,,then you will be asked by Allah (swt) why you didn’t study and make the effort to learn. One of my teachers, Sh. Muhammed Al Mahdi from Al-Jazaair in Egypt, started to teach five subjects every day after <i>Fajr</i>. I stopped going to this class of his, and one day he came to me and said, “I’m going to bear witness against you on the Day of Judgment that you didn’t come to class.” Then, I started to come to class!</p>
<p>How many of us want to be the chosen people of Allah (swt)? The Prophet ﷺ  said,</p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: large;"> “.أهل القرآن أهل الله و خاصته” </span></p>
<p>“The people of the Qur’an are the people of Allah (swt) and His chosen people.”</p>
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		<title>The Lesser of Two Good Deeds</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lecture by Suhaib Webb &#124; Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad Surat Al-Fatiha Series: Part I &#124; Part II &#124; Part III &#124; Part IV &#124; Part V &#124; Part VI &#124; Part VII &#124; Part VIII &#124; Part IX &#124; Part X &#124; Part XI &#124; Part XII &#124; Part XIII &#124; Part XIV&#124; Part XV &#124; Part XVI &#124; Part XVII &#124; Part XVIII &#124; Part XIX &#124; Part XX &#124; Part XXI &#124; Part XXII &#124; Part XXIII &#124; Part XXIV &#124; Part XXV  This is the final article in the Surat Al-Fatiha Series.  The Lesser of Two Good Deeds The [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lecture by Suhaib Webb<em> </em><em>|</em><em> Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad</em></p>
<div>Surat Al-Fatiha Series: <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/the-opening/">Part I</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/the-opening-%E2%80%93-ii/">Part II</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/broadening-the-comprehension/">Part III</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/pedagogy-of-mercy/">Part IV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/formula-for-cognition/">Part V</a> |<a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/mother-of-the-scripture/"> Part VI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/cultivating-faith/">Part VII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/surat-al-fatiha/">Part VIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/worship-has-been-divided-between-allahs-servants/#more-11054">Part IX</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/why-was-surat-al-fatiha-sent-twice/">Part X</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/lessons-from-the-opening-chapter/">Part XI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/worship/dua/achieving-balance/">Part XII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/the-etiquettes-of-dua/">Part XIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/character/overcoming-arrogance/">Part XIV</a>| <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/signs-of-arrogance/">Part XV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/recognizing-arrogance/">Part XVI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/showing-off-the-minor-shirk/">Part XVII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/different-forms-of-riya/">Part XVIII</a> | <a title="Riya Through Action" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/riya-through-action/">Part XIX</a> | <a title="The Prayer of Shaytan" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/worship/dua/the-prayer-of-shaytan/" target="_blank">Part XX</a> | <a title="Decree of Allah" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/quran/the-decree-of-allah/">Part XXI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/purification-heart/the-three-doors-of-iblees/">Part XXII</a> <strong>| </strong><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/purification-heart/satans-seven-strategies/" target="_blank">Part XXIII</a><strong> | </strong><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/small-steps-to-satan/" target="_blank">Part XXIV</a><strong> | Part XXV</strong></div>
<p><em> This is the final article in the Surat Al-Fatiha Series. </em></p>
<div><strong>The Lesser of Two Good Deeds</strong></div>
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<p>The sixth trick of Shaytan – if he can’t make you fall into any of the previous traps and he knows that you’re going to do good – is to make you choose to do the good that has lesser reward.</p>
<p>For example, the students are going to organize a rally on campus one morning where they will have seminars about Iraq and the condition of the Muslim world, as well as civil and human rights in North America. You say to yourself, “It sounds good, but I have to pray my <i>tahhajjud</i> (early morning prayer). And if I pray my <i>tahhajud</i> I will have to sleep in the morning, so I won’t be able to go.” Both are good, but which one is better? Which one do you all think is the better reward?</p>
<p>[Audience]: Praying.</p>
<p>No. The rally. Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal said, “<i>Tahajjud</i> is for myself. But the actions of the <i>ummah </i>(the Muslim community) are for everyone. So I would rather do what’s going to help the most number of people than help myself.”</p>
<p>This is something that many Muslims, especially here in the US, tend to neglect because we’re very individualistic. We’re stuck on “mine”. However, even while making <i>du`a’</i> in Surah Fatiha (Qur’an <a href="http://quran.com/1">1</a>), we don’t say, “guide me”; rather we ask Allah <i>subhanahu wa ta`ala</i> (exalted is He) to “guide us”. So, the actions which can benefit the masses of the Muslims earn more reward than the actions which benefit one’s self alone.</p>
<p>We learn the same lesson in the story of the great scholar Fudayl ibn Iyyad. During a time of jihad, Abdullah ibn Mubaraak was defending the Muslims from an attack and Fudayl had gone to Makkah to worship Allah (swt). Abdullah ibn Mubaraak wrote Fudayl a poem in which he said, “O Worshipper of the Two Houses! While you are busy in the night wetting your beard with your tears, we are busy in the day and the night wetting our beards with the blood of the <i>shuhadaa</i> (the martyrs).” When Fudayl read this, he started crying, realizing his selfishness.</p>
<p>The Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) said that if you stroke the head of an orphan the hairs you touch will be a reward for you with Allah (swt). Why? Because when you help an orphan you’re helping more people than just yourself.</p>
<p>Shaytan tries to get us to fall into the acts of lesser rewards. How can we protect ourselves from this? The answer is learning and gaining knowledge. We don’t have to become scholars, but we need knowledge enough to make good choices, to be good Muslims and to help others.</p>
<p>Another way to remedy this is found in the famous <i>hadith</i> (narration) of Umar <i>radiAllahu `anhu</i> (may God be pleased with him). Umar (ra)’s daughter’s name was Hafsa. She was first married to someone named Khunays (ra). Khunays suffered an injury in the battle of Badr and he died of his wounds. She was 19 years old. After Hafsa finished her <i>i’dah </i>(waiting period), Umar (ra) went to find her a good husband. He went first to Uthman ibn Affan (ra) and asked, “Would you be interested in marrying my daughter?” Uthman (ra) declined, and Umar (ra) got mad. Then he went to Abu Bakr (ra) and said, “Would you like to marry my daughter?” Abu Bakr (ra) also declined. So, Umar (ra) got really upset. He went to complain to the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>The question is, why did Umar (ra) get upset? Some people may say it’s because of the honor of his daughter. This is not the main reason. The main reason he got mad (sisters take note) is because he lost good men. Umar (ra) was looking for a good man to marry his daughter. Someone who would be good to his daughter, take care of her, and love her. Someone whom he knew was a good person. So, when Umar (ra) lost good men, of course he got mad. He didn’t get mad just because this was his daughter, Hafsa. He was mad because he wanted to give his daughter not to someone who was making six digits and driving a Lexus, but to someone who had good <i>akhlaq </i>(character and behavior) and <i>iman </i>(faith).</p>
<p>You see, we often misunderstand the <i>hadith</i> of the Prophet ﷺ  where he said, “Marry a woman for four reasons…” This also means, “Marry a man for four reasons…” Unfortunately no one tells the sisters this, so they sometimes think men get to choose but they don’t.</p>
<p>The four reasons the Prophet ﷺ  mentioned were beauty, wealth, family and <i>deen </i>(religion). The Prophet ﷺ then said, “Choose the one with religion, may you be blessed.”</p>
<p>Many people think that this <i>hadith</i> means that a person must only marry a person who is religious, and everything else doesn’t matter. This is not the correct understanding of this <i>hadith</i>. It means if you can find a woman/man who is religious that’s good. If you find a man who is religious and handsome, that’s better. If you find a woman who is religious and beautiful you have two out of four good qualities. And if you find someone with all four qualities, you’ve hit the jackpot! That’s why the Prophet ﷺ  didn’t marry anyone when he was married to Kahdijah (ra). She was beautiful, she came from a good family, she was wealthy, and she had <i>deen</i>. She was the epitome of the complete woman.</p>
<p>So, Umar (ra) wanted his daughter to marry a good man, and he approached two good men. The question is, isn’t Abu Bakr (ra) better than Uthman (ra)? What is our belief about Abu Bakr (ra)? Our belief about him is that the Prophet ﷺ said, “The greatest person after the prophets is Abu Bakr.”</p>
<p>So why did Umar (ra) go to Uthman (ra) first?  Because, as the Prophet ﷺ said, “If Umar goes this way, Shaytan goes that way (i.e. the opposite way)”. Let’s look at this situation.</p>
<p>Abu Bakr had three wives, one of them named Umm Rumman (the mother of Aisha (ra) and Abdul Rahman (ra)). Of her the Prophet ﷺ once said, “Whoever wants to see a woman from the women of Paradise, let them look at Umm Rumman.” Abu Bakr had two other wives as well.</p>
<p>However, Uthaman’s wife (who was one of the Prophet’s ﷺ  daughters) had just died. He had no wives at the time. So, if priorities were weighed between Uthman (ra) and Abu Bakr (ra) in terms of marriage, Uthman would take the priority. This is the wisdom of Umar (ra). Umar (ra) used priorities when choosing to do good. This is why in <i>fiqh </i>(Islamic jurisprudence) we have something called <i>fiqh al-awliyaat</i> (the fiqh of priorities).</p>
<p>Ibn Qayyim Al Jawzziya mentions that there’s one question that can help you to always choose to do the right thing. He posed this question to us and I will pose the question to you now.  What is the best form of worship?</p>
<p>[Audience]: Prayer</p>
<p>No, he said prayer is wrong.</p>
<p>[Audience]: Serving people.</p>
<p>Good try, but no. Serving people is wrong.</p>
<p>[Audience]: <i>Da`wah</i> (inviting to Islam)</p>
<p>No, wrong.</p>
<p>[Audience]: <i>Dhikr</i> (remembrance of Allah (swt))</p>
<p>No.</p>
<p>[Audience]: Follow the Qur’an and Sunnah.</p>
<p>Well, I can’t say no to that because it’s a general umbrella answer, so we’ll disqualify that one. What else?</p>
<p>[Audience]: Seeking knowledge?</p>
<p>No.</p>
<p>[Audience]: Fasting?</p>
<p>No, not fasting. You all give up?</p>
<p>Ibn Qayyim Al Jawziyya said that the best act of worship is “time and place”. What will bring the most benefit and reward according to its time and place is what you should do. For example, <i>salah</i> (prayer). In <i>salah</i> are we allowed to talk? No? Then how come if the sisters can’t hear, someone can say, “<i>Allahu Akbar</i> (God is Greater)!” after the Imam? What changed? The time and place.</p>
<p>What if someone says, “Let’s go and put posters up around campus for this event.” But it’s time for <i>salah</i>. Both are good, but which takes precedence because of time? <i>Salah</i>. If food is served should you pray or eat? Eat, according to the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>What if someone says, “Let’s go to the masjid and increase our <i>iman</i>,” but at that moment people are putting up posters for an event about Iraq, or Palestine, or something in America that will benefit people? In that case the posters take precedence because of the time we are living in.</p>
<p>The same applies for when a college student chooses a degree. Muslims in the liberal arts department of campuses have been put on the endangered species list. Unfortunately some parents believe they are allowed to force their children to be what they want their children to be. This has no basis in Islam. Parents can guide and advise their children, but they cannot force them. We can’t have Muslims concentrating only on one field, like law for example. We can’t only have people who do corporate law because they want to get paid well. How many of us want to be civil rights attorneys? This is a need Muslims have these days. We need Muslim lawyers and Muslim social workers. We need to choose majors that allow us to best serve the <i>ummah</i> (community) according to the time and place.</p>
<p><b>An All Out Attack</b></p>
<p>The last thing Shaytan does, if he can’t get you to fall into any of the first six traps, is an all out attack with jinn. This doesn’t mean that you’ll be sitting in your room and all of a sudden you see some strange creatures coming to get you. One of the ways he can use the jinn against you is that the jinn can go to others and cause them not to like you. They will say bad things about you, and you’ll be attacked because you’re on the truth. People will be speaking badly of you, trying to cause you to waver from the <i>deen</i>. This is why we find that people often say bad things about the great scholars in the Muslim world. They’re at that last level. That’s why we should be careful about what we say about other Islamic workers and scholars.</p>
<p>What will save you from this? The saying of the Prophet ﷺ  where he said, “Islam began as something strange, and it will end as something strange, so give good news to the strangers.”</p>
<p>It’s strange nowadays to dress correctly and not show your belly-button. It’s strange to not drive large metal objects through your nose and tongue (although according to the Hanafi <i>madhab</i> (school of thought), sisters can put a piercing in their nose). To have a beard, as was the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ, is strange these days.</p>
<p>Let’s close now by answering the question we posed earlier. We learned that Shaytan said he will attack from the right, left, back and front, but he will not attack from the top. Why not?</p>
<p>[Audience] Because Allah (swt) is above us.</p>
<p>This is a good point. The sister is saying that Allah (swt) is above us, which is why Shaytan cannot attack us from the top. We understand this as Muslims to mean that Allah (swt) is Majestic. This is what we mean when we say Allah (swt) is above us; He is above us in a manner that suits Him. Good attempt, <i>masha’Allah</i> (through Allah’s will). Does anyone have another answer?</p>
<p>[Audience] Guidance comes from above.</p>
<p><i>Masha’Allah</i>. That’s a good answer also.  Let’s read the answer that was turned in:</p>
<p>“Given that the devil attacks man from the left, the right, from behind, and from the front, and also given that the noor/light/guidance is singular, it is my guess that Allah (swt) has left us only on one path to reach guidance, and that is from the top, or through our minds.”</p>
<p>So, the writer is saying that the top is where our intellect is, and so, through our intellect we will reach the straight path. Very good, well thought out argument. It continues:</p>
<p>“In life we’re given an endless amount of choices every day, and although choices might seem like a good thing they truly only help to confuse even the most decisive and knowledgeable of men/women. Allah (swt) has left only one pathway open for us: it is through the mind that man gains knowledge and has the freewill to make both good and bad decisions. Man has the opportunity to go left, go right, go backwards and/or forwards where the devil waits for him. Or he can choose the correct path, the only righteous path which will, insha’Allah, lead him to God.</p>
<p>The mind here represents the knowledge and understanding of Islam. It also represents the ability to choose one’s own destiny by the choices one makes.”</p>
<p>So this writer is saying that because the intellect is the only way to God, Iblees doesn’t come from the top. Does anyone have any comment/constructive criticism for this response?</p>
<p>[Audience] Intellect can lead one astray.</p>
<p>Yes, that’s true. Look at, for example, the story of Khidr and Musa. When Khidr killed that boy, one’s intellect would say that is <i>haraam</i> (unlawful). Relying completely on the intellect can lead people astray. Another example we mentioned is the story of Adam (as) when Iblees told him and his wife that the only reason that Allah (swt) forbade them from eating from the tree was because they would become angels and live forever. This is an intellectual argument, and Adam (as) fell for it.</p>
<p>The intellect is one of the greatest gifts Allah (swt) gave human beings, but the intellect has to be guided by revelation. Sometimes we might find some things in Islam that if we try to rationalize, they don’t fit our rationalization. This is why we submit to Allah (swt).</p>
<p>This is a good answer, but it needs to be moderated a little bit to say that the intellect will guide us to Allah (swt) if we stick to the way that Allah (swt) sent us. Can we say that Karl Marx was smart? Most definitely. People can be intellectuals, but the question is, where does that intellect take us?”</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 13:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Originally published in May 2007 The Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) said, &#8220;Order your children to pray at seven and hit ((It should be noted that hitting here, as defined by Islamic Law, means a mere, at the most, spanking. However, if the spanking leaves a mark or a bruise, then it is a [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/2386434387_b3e593b11d_b.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class=" wp-image-23189 alignright" title="budding sweet pea, philipbouchard" src="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/2386434387_b3e593b11d_b.jpg" alt="http://www.flickr.com/photos/pbouchard/2386434387/in/photostream/" width="282" height="368" /></a>Originally published in May 2007</em></p>
<p>The Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) said, &#8220;Order your children to pray at seven and hit ((It should be noted that hitting here, as defined by Islamic Law, means a mere, at the most, spanking. However, if the spanking leaves a mark or a bruise, then it is a prohibited act and denounced by Islam. Thus, from a tap to a light spanking is permitted.)) them [for not praying] at the age of ten.&#8221;</p>
<p>In a recent comparative law class this <em>hadith </em>(narration) was addressed by one of our professors. He writes that the order here is not actually for the child, as a child is not <em>mukalaf</em> (charged with the responsibility to worship), but the order is in fact directed towards the guardian of the child. I pondered on that for some time and thought I would share where my thoughts led me:</p>
<p>Many of us have entered our thirties and found that our twenties went by like a flash. Now our little babies have suddenly grown up into little boys and girls before our very eyes. The thirties is really a strange period and, at times, reminds me of the time right after my high school graduation. What next? What are my plans? However, instead of thinking about my next academic move, financial responsibilities began to haunt me. The rising cost of living, insurance for the family, paying the high price for Islamic Education and future college costs are constantly replayed in my mind. And then, there is that massive demon known as home ownership. We get caught up, careers get tiring and we begin to drown in the sea of just plain survival. Then there is the reality that in a few short years we will be hitting our 50&#8217;s and preparing to retire and eventually meet Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta`ala </em>(exalted is He).</p>
<p>The soul takes a hit in the thirties. We become busy and, in many ways, we feel that we&#8217;re not respected. If the thirties were a child it would have to be the middle one. Not quite old enough to handle things and not too small to be absolved of responsibility. Thus, and I&#8217;ve found this in my own person, taking advice and humbling one&#8217;s self is not easy. &#8220;I&#8217;m thirty not twenty!&#8221; I have that one gray hair there on the front of my beard give me some respect.</p>
<p><strong>A Gift for Parents and the Hadith above</strong></p>
<p>Allah (swt) has made <em>dhikr</em> (remembrance) one of the important keys to the believer&#8217;s survival. However, during the twenties and thirties it is hard, at times, to take the reminder from others. At twenty, man you&#8217;re on top of the globe, and at thirty, you think you understand it. Thus, Allah (swt) in His wisdom and mercy orders us to order our children to pray. This is significant because the order is not directed to the child but to the mother, father or caretaker. Thus, while encouraging our children to pray we might stop and reflect on the following:</p>
<ol>
<li>Hey, I don&#8217;t even pray</li>
<li>My prayer is not good</li>
<li>My relationship with Allah is down the tubes</li>
</ol>
<p>Ahhhh what mercy! The shot is given and the patient feels nothing. Allah&#8217;s love is so great, so powerful and so intense that He knows that at this age we are not trying to hear anything from anybody. Thus, a sweet breeze comes and makes the patient the doctor. Sit, think and ask yourself while advising your little ones to pray, &#8220;Who is the order for?&#8221; Then remember the verse, &#8220;Why do you say what you don&#8217;t do?&#8221; The order is a gift, for you <em>akhi</em> and <em>ukhti </em>(brother and sister)! However. Allah is so cautious, so concerned with you, that He reminds you by ordering you to remind your little ones. Thus, the speaker is the one spoken to. Really, one has to be awed at this divine wisdom, the mercy and love of Allah (swt).</p>
<p><strong>Thus, Dear Brothers and Sisters</strong></p>
<p>This is a reminder for those of us struggling to swim in the deep sea known as the thirties to come back to Allah (swt). Truly, Allah has blessed our children to be a light for us. If we remind them now we are reminding ourselves and, <em>inshallah </em>(God willing), when we are older they will remind us again.</p>
<p>Some ideas on tying your children&#8217;s hearts to the Throne of Allah through prayers:</p>
<ol>
<li>Mothers &amp; Fathers take your (one is better) kids to the masjid. Have a competition between them:</li>
</ol>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Monday is Fatimah&#8217;s night<br />
Tuesday is Ahmed&#8217;s<br />
Then offer a prize to the one who prayed the best and acted the best in the masjid at the end of the week.</p>
<ol start="2">
<li>A Sheikh once told me that whenever his father would take him to the mosque he would give him some sweets after prayer if the boy did good. He told me, and this Sheikh still has a sweet tooth, that after that he associated the masjid with something sweet and nice. Thus, when he grew older he was attached to the masjid and those wonderful memories.</li>
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<p>May Allah give us wisdom and patience to be noble parents. May Allah protect our children and make them the next &#8216;Umar or Aiesha.</p>
<p>Your brother Suhaib</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhaib Webb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 13:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lecture by Suhaib Webb &#124; Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad Surat Al-Fatiha Series: Part I &#124; Part II &#124; Part III &#124; Part IV &#124; Part V &#124; Part VI &#124; Part VII &#124; Part VIII &#124; Part IX &#124; Part X &#124; Part XI &#124; Part XII &#124; Part XIII &#124; Part XIV&#124; Part XV &#124; Part XVI &#124; Part XVII &#124; Part XVIII &#124; Part XIX &#124; Part XX &#124; Part XXI &#124; Part XXII &#124; Part XXIII &#124; Part XXIV &#124; Part XXV Minor Sins The fourth attack of Shaytan (Satan) is to get us to commit minor sins. Here [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/2528091992_c61ca51ff5_b.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-23169 alignright" title="fire from small beginnings, ak photo" alt="http://www.flickr.com/photos/68558325@N00/2528091992/in/photostream/" src="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/2528091992_c61ca51ff5_b.jpg" width="294" height="198" /></a>Lecture by Suhaib Webb<em> </em><em>|</em><em> Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad</em></p>
<div>Surat Al-Fatiha Series: <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/the-opening/">Part I</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/the-opening-%E2%80%93-ii/">Part II</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/broadening-the-comprehension/">Part III</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/pedagogy-of-mercy/">Part IV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/formula-for-cognition/">Part V</a> |<a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/mother-of-the-scripture/"> Part VI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/cultivating-faith/">Part VII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/surat-al-fatiha/">Part VIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/worship-has-been-divided-between-allahs-servants/#more-11054">Part IX</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/why-was-surat-al-fatiha-sent-twice/">Part X</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/lessons-from-the-opening-chapter/">Part XI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/worship/dua/achieving-balance/">Part XII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/the-etiquettes-of-dua/">Part XIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/character/overcoming-arrogance/">Part XIV</a>| <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/signs-of-arrogance/">Part XV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/recognizing-arrogance/">Part XVI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/showing-off-the-minor-shirk/">Part XVII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/different-forms-of-riya/">Part XVIII</a> | <a title="Riya Through Action" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/riya-through-action/">Part XIX</a> | <a title="The Prayer of Shaytan" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/worship/dua/the-prayer-of-shaytan/" target="_blank">Part XX</a> | <a title="Decree of Allah" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/quran/the-decree-of-allah/">Part XXI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/purification-heart/the-three-doors-of-iblees/">Part XXII</a> <strong>| </strong><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/purification-heart/satans-seven-strategies/" target="_blank">Part XXIII</a><strong> | Part XXIV </strong>| <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/the-lesser-of-two-good-deeds/">Part XXV</a></div>
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<p><strong>Minor Sins</strong></p>
<p>The fourth attack of Shaytan (Satan) is to get us to commit minor sins. Here you get to see how sneaky Shaytan really is. If Shaytan can’t get someone to be a <em>kaafir</em> (disbeliever), and he can’t get someone to do <em>bid`ah</em> (innovation in the religion), and he can’t get someone to commit major sins, then the next step is minor sins. Minor sins are called <em>as-saghaair</em>. An example would be having envy towards someone, or having a problem with someone and not trying to fix it.</p>
<p>Now, someone may be listening right now and thinking, “Well I’m all right; I don’t commit big sins, only minor sins.” This is how Shaytan gets you. The Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) gave an example of the <em>saghaair</em> when he said, in an authentic <em>hadith</em> (narration), that there was a group of people who went to the desert where they wanted to make a fire. Each of them found little pieces of wood, which they collected together, and thus they were able to make the fire. The Prophet ﷺ said that this is how minor sins work. They keep throwing the minor sin on the pile until it becomes a major sin. That’s why the scholars said that if someone persists in committing a minor sin it will become a major sin over time.</p>
<p><strong>Wasting Time</strong></p>
<p>The fifth attack of Shaytan, if he doesn’t succeed in the other traps, is that he gets people to fall into what is called<em> al-mubaahat, </em>permissible things<em>. </em> For example, chatting online with someone of the same sex. Not with the opposite sex, because when you chat with the opposite sex then this is <em>khalwa </em>(seclusion).  According to the scholars you are alone with that person, and one can fall into a relationship very easily. Let me give you a proof of this. Last week, when you went home maybe you were chatting online with someone of the opposite gender. As you were chatting, suddenly your mother or father walked into the room and asked what you are doing. What do you say? “Oh, I’m just checking the score of the last basketball game.” If you don’t think it’s that bad then print out the conversation and let your parents read it.</p>
<p>The Prophet ﷺ defined sin as something that you don’t want people to know about, something that embarrasses you. He said, البر حسن الخلق. Righteousness is good behavior.</p>
<p>How many brothers and sisters pray, fast, and dress properly, but are rude and mean to others? We have to have the complete package, not one or the other. How many sisters who don’t wear hijab have told me that when they come to the masjid the other sisters put them down? She is trying to take a step to get closer to Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta`ala</em> (exalted is He) and people look at her like she has a virus. On the other hand, we also can’t say we have good behavior and nothing else.</p>
<p>So, in our example let’s say you are chatting with someone of the same gender, which is permissible. But you’re talking about nothing for five or six hours. Talking is permissible, but in this case it’s a waste of time.</p>
<p>The same is true for video games—as long as it’s not Tomb Raider. For those of you who don’t know, Tomb Raider is a video game where a scantily dressed woman is the main character. But Muslims will play this game and say, “Oh, it’s only a video game.”</p>
<p>Another example is Vice City. I was talking about this video game in the <em>khutbah</em> (sermon). When it came out, I was warning parents about it and the kids were really mad at me. In this game there is a man who is living the life of an ex-convict who is a drug dealer. He takes over the neighborhood by selling his drugs. Along the way (not to offend anyone here) he pulls over and engages in a relationship with a prostitute. But the brothers who were playing the game said, “But you can’t see anything, the car just shakes.” <em>SubhanAllah</em> (glory be to God)! Such behavior is very offensive. Not only is it representative of the completely anti-intellectual climate which is now permeating the United States, but do you realize why most women are forced into prostitution? Poverty and drug addiction.</p>
<p>I was an educator, and I did my practicum in the worst school that I could think of because I wanted to make a difference in society as a university student. There were children there who were the children of prostitutes. Imagine the cognitive disorders they have. Imagine the type of exploitation they are exposed to every night. Imagine the impact left on them from seeing their mothers and fathers committing acts of prostitution. Yet, we’ve made it a game, for fun. The social ramifications of prostitution on people are outstanding. If you want to understand prostitution, look at Fir`oun (Pharoah). Why did Fir`oun say that he would kill the men and let the women live? What were those women going to do? Become prostitutes. This is indicative of what we call a Fir`ounic society. But now it’s become a game, it became fun. It’s like those of us who grew up with Star Wars, playing with lasers and so forth. Because of movies, magazines and books we’re used to seeing guns and lasers blow up things without ever seeing the results; therefore, the war in Iraq right now has no real impact on the American mind. But when people actually see the pictures of the outcome, they’re shocked.</p>
<p>Shaytan tries to get us to waste our time with these kinds of things that have no benefit and no reward, according to the <em>fiqh</em> (jurisprudence). Another example is shopping. <em>Masha’Allah</em>, nowadays our sisters and brothers have a new <em>bid`ah</em>: <em>qiyaam an-nahar </em>(standing in the day). You know in Islam we have <em>qiyyamul layl</em> where we stand in the night and pray. You’ll find them standing in the mall, rushing to 75% off sales. If you went to the same person and suggested that they stand in the night and pray they would say, “Oh, it’s too difficult. I can’t do it.” But for nine or ten hours a day in the mall they don’t mind. Why? Because they see the immediate rewards and benefits of their shopping.</p>
<p>Imam Al Ghazaali mentioned a beautiful poem in which a man says, “I am asleep in the night and I can hear the weak pigeons crying on the weak branch. Am I not stronger than pigeons that I can get up and cry in front of Allah (swt)?” How can the Muslims be the leaders of the world when they can’t even push a 3.5oz blanket off their bodies to stand and ask Allah (swt) for His help and guidance?</p>
<p>I’m sure all of us, myself first, are guilty of wasting time. This is a big trick of Shaytan because if you’re doing something and you’re not getting rewarded or punished, then Shaytan is winning. We take a lesson from this that as Muslims we have to be proactive; we can’t not be in park. We should not be neutral and doing nothing.<strong></strong></p>
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		<title>The Prophet Muhammad as My Role Model</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2012 12:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Imam Suhaib talks about the legacy of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, peace be upon him, at the ICNA-MAS 37th Annual Convention.]]></description>
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		<title>More than Days: The History of Islamic Months</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[by Imam al-Qarafi &#124; Translated by Suhaib Webb The names of the Islamic months are rooted in certain events that took place in them. Ramadan is named after Ramda; Ramda are stones heated by the sun during summer. Shawal is derived from the lifting (Ar. shayl) of a camel&#8217;s tail to ward off flies (because [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><em></em>The names of the Islamic months are rooted in certain events that took place in them. Ramadan is named after Ramda; Ramda are stones heated by the sun during summer. Shawal is derived from the lifting (Ar. s<em>hayl</em>) of a camel&#8217;s tail to ward off flies (because of the extreme heat). Dhul Q`adah is named such because it was the first sacred month that prohibited fighting. Thus, people sat (refrained from fighting) during that time. Dhu al-Hijja is named such because the Hajj coincides with it. Muharram takes its name because fighting is prohibited during it. Safar takes its name from <em>sifir</em>, which means to be empty, because the trails that the Arabs used for travel and business were empty because the sacred months had ended and fighting returned. Rab`i al-Awal and Rab`i al-Thani took their names from <em>rab`i al-&#8216;ashab</em> (dense grass) because it grew during these two months. Jumad al-Ula and Jumad al-Thani took their names from <em>jumad al-ma</em> (Eng. ice), because these two months occurred while it was cold. Rajab is coined as such because it is a sacred month. Sha`ban is taken from a word which means to split and divide. It took its name because the Arabs would return to fighting upon its onset and divide themselves.</p>
<p>Translated from <em>Al-Dhakhira </em>by Imam al-Qarafi, vol. 2 pg. 486</p>
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		<title>Shah Walliullah al-Dehlawi’s Approach to Reform</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2012 12:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[By Abu al-Hassan al-Nadwi &#124; Translated by Suhaib Webb Imam al-Dahlawi undertook efforts towards revival and reform by focusing on the following: During his age, the majority of Muslims had major shortcomings in understanding how to have faith in God (Ar. tauhid). It was clouded by numerous ignorant ideas, corrupted philosophies, and un-Islamic customs, so [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><em>By Abu al-Hassan al-Nadwi | Translated by Suhaib Webb</em></p>
<p>Imam al-Dahlawi undertook efforts towards revival and reform by focusing on the following:</p>
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<li>During his age, the majority of Muslims had major shortcomings in understanding how to have faith in God (Ar. <em>tauhid</em>). It was clouded by numerous ignorant ideas, corrupted philosophies, and un-Islamic customs, so It was incumbent to clarify the true faith in all its purity and clarity, explaining what the people of ignorance (before the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, peace be upon him) believed, until the difference between their faith and what Islam brought was clear.</li>
<li>It was incumbent for the Muslim community to have direct access to the Qur’an and <em>Sunnah</em> (teachings of the Prophet ﷺ). A gulf occurred between the scholars and the teaching of the Qur’an to the masses, which prevented and weakened the common person’s ability to understand revelation. This was due to the scholars’ fear of losing their status, whether political or religious. Due to this, they did not translate it into the native language and they failed to teach the books of Prophet’s ﷺ traditions. Thus, it was imperative that the meanings and rulings of the Qur’an be rendered into the language of the people along with returning to the six authentic books of <em>hadith</em> (prophetic narration).</li>
<li>Religious knowledge in India had reached an all time low in general, and particularly in the knowledge of <em>hadith</em>. It was imperative to spread the knowledge of <em>hadith</em>. Thus, the <em>sahih</em> (authentic) texts (al-Bukhari and Muslim) were taught, as was the <em>Muwatta</em> of Imam Malik, until India became renowned in the Muslim world as a place that specialized in the science of <em>hadith</em>.</li>
<li>He noted that the world was about to welcome a new intellectual age. An age in which political upheaval was about to run rampant. Thus, it was incumbent to explain the idea of the Caliphate, as well as the different approaches and fundamentals that Islam employed in running a state and day to day activities. Therefore he wrote a number of books, which are still beneficial till this day: <em>The Clear Proof of God</em> and <em>Removing the Doubts Surrounding the Differences of the Caliphs</em>.</li>
<li>He noted that there was no hope in reforming the royal families or their youth of his time for reasons explained in the quote by Ibn Khaldun: “If a pyramid is established in a country, it will never rise again.” (Meaning: opulence tends to corrupt and pacify.) Thus, there was no hope in reforming them. True reform must start with a new group, from the bottom up, who could reform the society in the correct way.</li>
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<p>Translated from pgs. 83-85 of <em>Rabaniyya la Rahbaniyya fi al-Islam</em> by Sh. Abu al-Hasan al-Nadwi (God be pleased with him)</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 12:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lecture by Suhaib Webb &#124; Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad Surat Al-Fatiha Series: Part I &#124; Part II &#124; Part III &#124; Part IV &#124; Part V &#124; Part VI &#124; Part VII &#124; Part VIII &#124; Part IX &#124; Part X &#124; Part XI &#124; Part XII &#124; Part XIII &#124; Part XIV&#124; Part XV &#124; Part XVI &#124; Part XVII &#124; Part XVIII &#124; Part XIX &#124; Part XX &#124; Part XXI &#124; Part XXII &#124; Part XXIII &#124; Part XXIV &#124; Part XXV We go now to the statement of Ibn Abbas radi Allahu `anhu (may [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lecture by Suhaib Webb<em> </em><em>|</em><em> Transcribed by Fuseina Mohamad</em></p>
<div>Surat Al-Fatiha Series: <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/the-opening/">Part I</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/the-opening-%E2%80%93-ii/">Part II</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/broadening-the-comprehension/">Part III</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/pedagogy-of-mercy/">Part IV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/formula-for-cognition/">Part V</a> |<a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/mother-of-the-scripture/"> Part VI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/cultivating-faith/">Part VII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/surat-al-fatiha/">Part VIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/worship-has-been-divided-between-allahs-servants/#more-11054">Part IX</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/why-was-surat-al-fatiha-sent-twice/">Part X</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/islam-studies/lessons-from-the-opening-chapter/">Part XI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/worship/dua/achieving-balance/">Part XII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/the-etiquettes-of-dua/">Part XIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/personaldvlpt/character/overcoming-arrogance/">Part XIV</a>| <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/signs-of-arrogance/">Part XV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/recognizing-arrogance/">Part XVI</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/showing-off-the-minor-shirk/">Part XVII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/different-forms-of-riya/">Part XVIII</a> | <a title="Riya Through Action" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/riya-through-action/">Part XIX</a> | <a title="The Prayer of Shaytan" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/worship/dua/the-prayer-of-shaytan/" target="_blank">Part XX</a> | <a title="Decree of Allah" href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/quran/the-decree-of-allah/">Part XXI</a> | <strong>Part XXII </strong>| <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/purification-heart/satans-seven-strategies/">Part XXIII</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/small-steps-to-satan/">Part XXIV</a> | <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/personaldvlpt/character/the-lesser-of-two-good-deeds/">Part XXV</a></div>
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<p>We go now to the statement of Ibn Abbas <em>radi Allahu `anhu</em> (may Allah be pleased with him). He explains that when Iblees (the Devil) said he will come to you from your front (Qur’an <a href="http://quran.com/7/17">7:17</a>) this means Iblees will cause you to doubt the hereafter. When Iblees comes to you from the back, he will cause you to have hope in the <em>dunya</em> (worldly life). <em>Dunya</em> comes from the word <em>adnaa</em> which has two meanings: something close and also something debased and low. What philosophy can be used to describe the fact that Iblees is coming to people to make them doubt in the hereafter and also to give them hope in this life? It’s called materialism. Iblees’s goal is to make people absolute materialists.</p>
<p><em>SubhanAllah</em> (glory be to God), a brother can wait for five months for a new pair of sneakers, but he can’t pray <em>qiyaamul layl</em> (praying during the night) once in five months.  We know that during the last third of the night Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta’ala </em>(exalted is he) comes to the lowest heaven and says: “Who is making <em>du`a’</em> [supplication] so that I can answer? Who’s seeking My forgiveness so I can forgive them? Who is asking so I can give them?” <em>SubhanAllah</em>, which appointment is greater? I remember when I was in Oklahoma and the PS2 came out, some of the youth that I used to teach in the masjid went and camped out. The same guys who went and camped in front of Best Buy were unable to camp out one night for Allah (swt). Are we really soldiers of Allah (swt) if we can stand all night in front of Best Buy to get a PS2 but we can’t stand up in the night and pray in front of Allah (swt)? Absolute materialism. This is the goal of Iblees.</p>
<p>Ibn Abbas continues to say that the attack from the right is to cause people to have doubt in regards to their religion, to make problems in the religion, and to give you a hard time and cause you to question the religion. The way to cure doubts is to ask someone who knows, or read and study.</p>
<p>The last thing that Ibn Abbas mentioned is the attack from the left: falling into sins. Maybe most of us thought that falling into sins would be number one, but it’s the last. The previous three are all sins, but they can lead you to <em>kufr</em> (disbelief). The last one would lead you to <em>‘asee</em> (disobedience to Allah) and if Iblees can make someone a disbeliever, he has won.</p>
<p>Now, let’s discuss the three doors of Iblees. According to Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah, Iblees comes to you from three doors. These three doors are like entrances. This isn’t where Iblees does his dirty work, but this is how he slides in under the radar. The three doors of Iblees are:</p>
<p><strong>1) <em>Babul Ghadab</em>: The door of anger</strong></p>
<p><em>Subhan’Allah</em>, how many times have I heard as an Imam that a brother knocked the teeth out of his wife’s mouth because he was angry? When you ask him, “What happened to you? Why are you treating your wife like that?” He’ll say, “Oh, <em>subhanAllah</em>, man, I was angry, and she just pushed me to the point where I had to hit her.” Anger is not an excuse. And also on the other hand we have some brothers who become mentally depressed because the wife is always nagging and insulting him. The core element to a lot of marital problems is either misunderstanding of the <em>deen</em> (religion) or anger.</p>
<p>How many of us have stopped talking to a friend on campus because of anger? Maybe a sister thinks, “Oh, that girl thinks she’s better than us now that she has the nice <em>jilbab</em> (dress) from Eygpt.” Or a brother thinks, “Oh, that guy memorized two <em>juz</em> (portions) of the Qur’an—now he won’t talk to us because he thinks he’s so religious.” All of these thoughts come from anger.</p>
<p>And what about how we act with our parents? How many of us just go off on our parents? All of this is attributed to anger.</p>
<p>What is the remedy for anger? In Sahih Muslim the Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) taught us how to deal with anger. One time, one of the companions of the Prophet ﷺ got angry. The Prophet ﷺ told him to say something. The man refused to say it and he got even angrier. The Prophet ﷺ said, “I swear by Allah (swt), I know some words that, if he said them, his anger would leave him.”</p>
<p>What were the words? <em>Authoo billahi min as-shaytan ar-rajeem</em> (I seek protection with Allah from Satan, the accursed one). Why is this the first thing the Prophet ﷺ taught us about anger? Because anger is a door of Shaytan.</p>
<p><strong>2) The Door of Desires</strong></p>
<p>What is the greatness of Paradise? In one narration it is reported that Allah (swt) made Paradise and told Jibreel (the angel Gabriel) to fly for three thousand years. So Jibreel took a journey for three thousand years and then he came back. Allah (swt) asked him, “What did you think?” Jibreel responded, “I can’t believe it.” Allah (swt) told Jibreel to go for another three thousand years and then after that another three thousand years. When Jibreel finally came back Allah (swt) told him, “Do you know what you just saw? Part of the paradise of Abu Bakr (ra).”</p>
<p>In another authentic <em>hadith</em> (narration from the Prophet ﷺ) we learn about the last person to come out of Hellfire. He will be washed and all of the burns will come off of him. Then Allah (swt) will ask him, “What do you want?” This man will see a nice tree and he will say, “Oh Allah, can you put me under that tree?” Allah (swt) will say, “Yes, but you have to swear you will not ask Me for anything else.” The man will say, “I swear by Allah (swt) I will not ask for anything else,” so Allah (swt) will put him under the tree.</p>
<p>The man will be sitting under the tree and then he will see a tree with a river under it. He’ll say, “Oh Allah, can you put me over there by the river?” Allah (swt) will ask, “Yes, but you have to swear that you won’t ask Me for anything else.” He will swear by Allah (swt) that he will not ask for anything else, and Allah (swt) will put him there.</p>
<p>Then the man will see one of the doors of Paradise.  He’ll say, “Oh Allah, can you put me by that door?” Allah (swt) will say, “Yes, but you must swear that you will never ask Me for anything else again.” The man will swear by Allah (swt) that he will not ask for anything else again. Imagine, this man is saying <em>wallahi</em> (I swear by Allah) to Allah (swt) Himself, and he’s lying! So Allah (swt) will put him by that door.</p>
<p>Then the man will see some curtains. He will say, “Oh Allah can you put me by those curtains so that I can look inside and see the people of Paradise?” Allah (swt) will say, “Yes, but you must swear you will never ask Me for anything else after this.” The man will swear. So Allah (swt) will allow him to look through the curtains at Paradise. The man will see Paradise and he will say, “Oh Allah, put me in Paradise!”  Allah (swt) will put him in Paradise and then He will come to the man while he is in Paradise and He will ask him, “Are you satisfied? Are you happy? Do you need anything else?”</p>
<p>The man will say, “<em>Wallahi</em> I can’t ask for anything else.”</p>
<p>Allah (swt) will respond, “This is for you and ten times its equal.” This <em>hadith</em> is found at the end of the book <em>Riyaad as-Saleeheen</em>.</p>
<p>The <em>ulema</em> (scholars) ask, why does Allah (swt) allow him to say <em>wallahi</em> (I swear by Allah) even though he’s lying? It’s because Allah (swt) knows that none of us can be patient with Paradise. If you see Paradise you’re going to want it.</p>
<p>As related by Bukhari and Muslim, after Allah (swt) created Paradise He told Jibreel to go and look at it and then asked him what he thought. Jibreel said, “<em>Wallahi</em> anyone who hears about it is going to want to go there.” Then Allah (swt) surrounded Paradise with something and He told Jibreel to go and look at it again. Jibreel came back and told Allah (swt), “I don’t think anyone can make it to Paradise.” Then Allah (swt) made the Hellfire and told Jibreel to go and look at it. Jibreel saw it and came back. Allah (swt) asked him, “What do you think?” Jibreel replied, “<em>Wallahi</em>, anyone that hears about it will not want to go there.” Then Allah (swt) surrounded it with something and told Jibreel to go and look at it. When Jibreel came back and Allah (swt) asked him what he thought, Jibreel said, “<em>Wallahi</em>, no one can escape it.”</p>
<p>What did Allah (swt) surround Paradise with? Hard work. Waking up at 4:30 in the morning, making <em>wudu</em> (ablutions) and praying 2 <em>rak’ah</em> (units of prayer) and giving that <em>sadaqah</em> (charity) from your eye that you owe to Allah (swt). Being nice to your friends and forgiving your brothers and sisters who did wrong to you. Being active in the MSA, attending different programs, involving yourself in anything positive. Speaking out against injustice. Waking up and studying for your finals, not coming in unprepared and hoping Allah (swt) will help you.</p>
<p>What did Allah (swt) surround Hellfire with? <em>Shahawaat</em> (Desires), the Door of Shaytan. Ease, recreation, vacation, chillin’ like a villain. All of this surrounds the Hellfire.</p>
<p><strong>3) The Door of <em>Ghaflah</em> (Negligence)</strong></p>
<p>For people your age (college students) this door of Shaytan is the most dangerous. Shaytan messes with you in areas of negligence. For example, if you go overseas—when does everyone say they’re going to make Hajj (the pilgrimage to Mecca)? When they’re 70 years old. How does someone know they’re going to reach 70 years? This is negligence. Look at the example of this <em>sahaabi</em> (companion of the Prophet ﷺ). He was sitting with some dates and he asked the Prophet ﷺ, “Oh Prophet of Allah, if I stop eating these dates, join the battle and become a <em>shaheed </em>(martyr) where will I be?” The Prophet ﷺ answered, “Paradise.” The man threw down his dates and he went.</p>
<p>How about us? Are we negligent when it comes to our opportunity to obey Allah (swt)? Or do we say: Oh, I’ll start to pray after I get married. I’ll start to do this when I finish high school.</p>
<p>Do it now. <em>SubhanAllah</em>, with Nike, we “just do it”. But with Islam we take it slowly, step by step.</p>
<p>So these are the three doors that Shaytan uses to get inside you.</p>
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