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					<description><![CDATA[Originally published in June 2014 Few scholars (and yet many “religious” Muslims) claim that women scholars should not teach mixed gatherings openly as men scholars do and that if she does she should do so behind a curtain. It is also suggested as evidence against this that women should generally stay at home and that [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Originally published in June 2014</em></p>
<p><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/4N4OPR89TM1.jpg"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-38287" src="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/4N4OPR89TM1-300x169.jpg" alt="https://stocksnap.io/photo/4N4OPR89TM" width="300" height="169" srcset="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/4N4OPR89TM1-300x169.jpg 300w, https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/4N4OPR89TM1-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/4N4OPR89TM1-810x456.jpg 810w, https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/4N4OPR89TM1-1140x641.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>Few scholars (and yet many “religious” Muslims) claim that women scholars should not teach mixed gatherings openly as men scholars do and that if she does she should do so behind a curtain. It is also suggested as evidence against this that women should generally stay at home and that her face as well as her voice is of her nakedness (<em>`aura</em>), and they shouldn’t be seen or heard! For those who came to Islam or latched on to it because it is generally so practical and reasonable, you are probably thinking, well, that is ridiculous. The following article will show the strong scriptural refutation most scholars would make against such claims.</p>
<p>The discussion is mainly based in the commentary and juristic interpretation of<em> surah al-Ahzab</em> (Qur’an <a href="http://quran.com/33">33</a>). <em>Surah al-Ahzab </em>is themed contextually with many verses over a few pages which address the pronoun for the feminine plural. These are always referring back to “the wives or women of the Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) (أزواج أو نساء النبي)” whereas the word “female believers (مؤمنات)” is only used once at the very end of the context in the verse enjoining the modest covering of Islam which is customarily referred to as Hijab in English. This can be confusing because the “verse of Hijab” is not referring to the modest clothing; rather it was an injunction for us to ask the wives of the Prophet ﷺ from behind a curtain when visiting their homes.</p>
<p>The first occurrence of the feminine plural pronoun is in dealing with the Prophet’s wives desire for extra wealth and provisions. God tells them that if they desire this worldly life then the Prophet should divorce them whereas if they want the Hereafter then that is the reward for exceptional Muslims:</p>
<p>“Dear Prophet, tell your wives that if they want this life and its adornments…” (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/33/28">33:28</a>).</p>
<p>The next time the pronoun appears, it is referring back to a specific warning against the wives of the Prophet ﷺ from sexual immorality which will bring a double punishment.</p>
<p>“Dearest women of the Prophet whoever among you would commit adultery…” (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/33/30">33:30</a>).</p>
<p>The next verse with the plural feminine pronoun makes the case in point of the whole issue!</p>
<p>“Dear wives of the Prophet, <strong>You are not like any other women.</strong> If you are to be pious then do not speak in a soft sweet tone which could lead a person with a diseased heart to get the wrong idea. Live in tranquility in your homes and don’t make a spectacle of yourselves as the women did before Islam…” (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/33/32-33">33:32-33</a>).</p>
<p>This verse is clearly denoting the special status of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ and how they carry a much more specific and cautious ruling. As we saw in the previous verses, the deeds of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ carry double the impact and so naturally the law carries double the seriousness. There are clearly unique rules to the wives such as the fact that they do not inherit from the Prophet ﷺ, no man can marry them after, and according to many commentators and jurists, they should stay home and if visited, they should speak from behind a curtain.</p>
<p>The <em>surah</em> then goes into the generality of spiritual equality between women and men, and then goes into a page and a half of other matters clearly moving away from the specificity of either the wives of the Prophet ﷺ or the women believers.</p>
<p>It picks back up admonishing the Prophet ﷺ and his wives about the general rules of their relationship and again we have reference to the plural feminine pronoun again referring to the Prophet’s wives.</p>
<p>“Dear prophet, We have permitted you to be with your wives to whom you have given the bridal dowry…” (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/33/50">33:50</a>).</p>
<p>Immediately following that is the “verse of the Hijab”. Let us look at the verse and see who it was referring to and the scholarly difference of interpretation and what may have led to such difference while it will probably seem plain and evident to most readers.</p>
<p>“Dear believers don’t hang around the Prophet’s house hoping to be invited for a meal. If you are invited, then go and eat, but don’t linger around too long afterwards hoping to talk as that often annoyed the Prophet and he was shy to tell you to leave. God is not shy to say the truth. If you ask them (feminine plural), then do so from behind a curtain. That is purer for your (masculine plural) hearts and theirs (feminine plural). You must not annoy the Prophet nor should you ever marry his wives after he passes. Indeed these are of the most serious of affairs to God.” (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/33/53">33:53</a>)</p>
<p>Three verses later, the <em>surah</em> reveals the injunction for the modest covering women are to wear and God felt it necessary to specify the wives of the Prophet ﷺ, his daughters and all the believing women so as to leave no doubt about its legislative intention.</p>
<p>“Dear prophet, tell your wives, your daughters and the believing women to cover their entire bodies with clothing…” (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/33/59">33:59</a>).</p>
<p>This was the last verse in the <em>surah</em> using the plural feminine pronoun in which we see all previous verses specifying that to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p><strong>Interpretations of the Verse Regarding Staying at Home</strong></p>
<p>As you can see, the context and linguistics is addressing the wives of the Prophet ﷺ, although some scholars said that it should address all other female believers as well since they are our example. They said it is similar to the verses which address the Prophet ﷺ. On the other hand, other scholars held the position of the specificity of the text to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ as both a specific admonition and to clarify their special status.</p>
<p><strong>Prominent Classical Commentaries</strong></p>
<p>Al-Tabari (310) — Indicates that the verse about staying in the house except for need is for all women. He narrates many narrations of circumstances in which the verse of Hijab was revealed all of which indicate it is specific to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ. He does mention one opinion of Qatada that it was for all homes to have a curtain between strange men and the women of the house. Ibn Kathir follows Imam al-Tabari’s commentary.</p>
<p>Ibn Atiya (546) — Makes no mention of the verses being general for all women rather his commentary follows the natural linguistics which are specific to wives of the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>Ibn al-Jawzi (597) — Makes no mention of the verses being general for all women rather his commentary follows the natural linguistics which are specific to wives of the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>Imam al-Razi (606) — Makes no mention of the verses being general for all women rather his commentary follows the natural linguistics which are specific to wives of the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>Al-Qurtubi (671) — Indicates that the rulings are general for all women.</p>
<p>Al-Nasafi (710) — Makes no mention of the verses being general for all women rather his commentary follows the natural linguistics which are specific to wives of the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>Imam Al-Sutooti (864) — Makes no mention of the verses being general for all women rather his commentary follows the natural linguistics which are specific to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ.</p>
<p>Ibn Ashoor (1393) — Actually makes the point that the verses are specific to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ when speaking about things which the believing women weren’t generally commanded to elsewhere in the Qur&#8217;an. He states that it would be noble for a believing woman to follow them, but she is not obligated to.</p>
<p><strong>Related Hadiths </strong></p>
<p>Ibn Hajar, <em>radi Allahu `anhu </em>(may God be pleased with him), narrates the <em>hadith</em> in his commentary on al-Bukhari — This verse stay in your homes is in reality specific to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ since Umm Salamah used to say: “I won’t be moved by a camel’s back until I am reunited with the Prophet,” (al-Fath 3561).</p>
<p>It is also narrated in most of the historical commentaries how after the verse of Hijab was revealed, Umar saw Sawdah (ra) — the wife of the Prophet ﷺ— walking around outside for some reason and asked her why she is outside. She went and asked the Prophet ﷺ about Umar’s rebuking her and he responded: “God has permitted you to go out if you need to,” (Muslim 2170).</p>
<p>It is also narrated in many sound narrations that after the loss of the Battle of the Camel led by A’ishah (ra), she would cry when reading the verse about staying in the house.</p>
<p><strong>Is a Woman’s Face of her Nakedness?</strong></p>
<p>In <em>Sura al-Noor</em> men and women were commanded to lower their gaze since the face is apparent. So if that is to be a proof for men not watching a female speaker then that would also prevent women from watching a male speaker. The vast majority of the scholars say that the face and hands of a woman are not from her nakedness, but should still not be stared at. In commenting on this verse many commentators particularly from the Hanafis say that the injunction to lower the gaze is understood at the moment of desire. If there is no desire then the verse is inapplicable. Others said that the restriction is lightened in professional interactions like buying and selling or <strong>teaching</strong> etc.</p>
<p><strong>Is a Woman’s Voice of her Nakedness? </strong></p>
<p>Hanafi’s: Ibn Abideen Al-Darr Al-Mukhtar: “Like her face and hands, her voice is not of her nakedness.”</p>
<p>Maliki’s: Hashiyat al-Dasooqi: “It is said that the women’s voice is not of her nakedness since we have so many female scholars of <em>Hadith</em>. It can only be of her nakedness if a man is attracted by it so then it would be disliked to listen to it.” It is the well-established opinion that her voice is not nakedness as mentioned by al-Adawi.</p>
<p>Shafi’ee: Majmoo al-Nawawi: “It was said that Al-Qadhi Husain was asked if the woman’s voice is of her nakedness and he answered that both opinions are found in the school, but that the more correct is that it isn’t.”</p>
<p>Hanbali: Insaaf al-Mardawi: “It is the more correct opinion that the voice of a woman is not of her nakedness.”</p>
<p>Dr. Su’ad Salih the previous Deen of Islamic Law at Azhar University says the there is nothing wrong with a female scholar teaching a mixed gathering since it is well established that great women scholars of the past did so. There is nothing in the scripture that would prohibit a modest woman of knowledge and character to preach to the masses. She states that the fact widows were commanded to stay in the house for mourning is evidence that generally they may leave the house. She similarly negates the claim that a woman’s voice is of her nakedness since the Qur&#8217;an did ask us to ask the wives of the Prophet ﷺ behind a curtain thus hearing their voice. She also reminds us that there were thousands of female scholars of <em>hadith</em> and <em>fiqh</em> who taught many men. The verse does not prohibit all speech; rather it forbids a sweet soft toned voice that may be seen as attractive:</p>
<p>“…If you are to be pious then do not speak in a soft sweet tone which could lead a person with a diseased heart to get the wrong idea.” (Qur&#8217;an <a href="http://quran.com/33/32">33:32</a>)</p>
<p>Dr. Husam al-Farfoor and Dr. Abdul-Hameed al-Ubaydee, both professors of comparative jurisprudence in Syria and Iraq as well as the great scholar Muhammad Al-Didow al-Shanqeeti agree with her <em>fatwa</em>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[By S.H. This article is a  response to the letter “From the Youth” that was previously published on this site. Dear H.M., You spoke from your heart, and it reached ours. Your voice is needed, desperately. We need to hear your thoughts; we will always recognise your voice—keep using it. Keep your heart open a little [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>By S.H.</em></p>
<p>This article is a  response to the letter “<a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/youth/from-the-youth/">From the Youth</a>” that was previously published on this site.</p>
<p>Dear H.M.,</p>
<p><a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/7GY7PSD0L5.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-36457" src="https://www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/7GY7PSD0L5-300x200.jpg" alt="https://stocksnap.io/photo/7GY7PSD0L5" width="300" height="200" /></a>You spoke from your heart, and it reached ours. Your voice is needed, desperately. We need to hear your thoughts; we will always recognise your voice—keep using it. Keep your heart open a little longer, for this is a dialogue: we need to speak to each other.</p>
<p>We never imagined it would be this hard for you, or for us. At your birth, we photo-shopped our minds: erased historical prejudices, airbrushed away cultural biases and brightened the picture, sharpened the faith-filled focus and patched together the best environment we could to receive and nurture you. We never expected that you would have to deal with this much, beyond your and our control.</p>
<p>You are never far. Your ‘being’, your challenges, your hurdles, your triumphs, the hope in your eyes are always at the front of our minds.</p>
<p>Yes, you are the pulse of our hearts. Without you though, we do exist. We are individuals with the same fire, passions, doubts and insecurities as you have; we have just learnt to live with them. You are a part of us, but not a reflection of us; just as we are not reflected in you – entirely. Yes, we share a symbiotic relationship; we have ties that transcend all, a bond that defies words and logic. But do not make the mistake of thinking our efforts are reflected in you anymore than a farmer who has toiled and sweat over his seedlings has any control over a storm that sweeps away all the blossoms he nurtured painstakingly. The result does not reflect the effort. On this journey of nurturing you, we have come to know, and then believe, that our efforts—flawed and patchy though they may be—are not the whole picture. We toil together, and we pray earnestly for your success, and yes, together that defines the future.</p>
<p>Seek us, hear us, friend us.</p>
<p>Your digital world is one we have held the hand of from its inception. Year by year, we walked with each new stage, stepping up to the next feature, exchanging our pen, paper and payphone world for the keyboard. So, while we may have tired from chasing and subscribing to every new platform, it is not because we can’t understand, but because we have made choices. Choices. We make choices to stay in control of our lives. All our admonitions, clashes and unwanted advice are because we want you to have the freedom of choice over the most valuable asset you have: your time. We understand technology, and we also understand enslavement. Sincere advice: break free. Look into the eyes of those close to you, walk with them beside a real sunset: <em>face</em> their face. We are here to help you, but we can’t do it alone. You have to want to live beyond the screen.</p>
<p>We are home too. Born on this soil, the same as you, we have muddled along with labels: native, foreign, country of origin, motherland – bewildered and lost. We too have walked a similar path to yours, step by step. A path lined with an aching desire to belong somewhere completely, walking this way and that, and finding we belong neither here, nor over there – our parents&#8217; country. We had to make this our home. Ever since you have appeared, we have been working brick by brick, value by value, dialogue after dialogue to make this, here, now, a comfortable home for your identity. We have made mistakes. We have inherited other mistakes. At times we have had our ‘home-making’ efforts thwarted by those who want to see discord and divisions. But, between the earth under our feet and the skies above, we have tried and continue to try to be at home, with you here. Even though there are days when the heart aches and calls out: ‘where is home? I want to go home…’ Maybe we have fallen into the ‘gap’; neither belonging to the minaret skyline of our parents, nor feeling accepted in the urban jungles we survive in. Four decades to think over this has taught us a valuable lesson: that we truly are travellers, resting in the shade for a while. Transient. We want you to find comfort, acceptance, and joy, and to contribute to the land you are born in. It is a work in progress, for all of us…</p>
<p>There is no blame, no shame in learning to love Islam. Your honesty is what matters. It is from honesty with your <em>nafs </em>(self), that the love will grow from within. From the outside you are bombarded by all the messages of what Islam is not. We could only protect you from this to a point. If we could quiet the cacophony we would. Search from the inside, and you will find faith in the faith that will bring you peace.</p>
<p>We have faith in you. You are part of this planet’s future, a better future. Walk your own path as we did. When you fall, as we did, take responsibility for it. Privilege and responsibility go hand in hand. If we are your roots, then do not sever us. Many people will cross your path and tug you this way and that. As your stem is pulled, deep below, you do not see the indescribable pain we feel, fearing a severance. Standing firm is staying grounded. We will anchor you.</p>
<p>We do not see our paths as growing apart, rather, we rejoice in the novel, superior paths some of you are showing us. We are proud of those paths built by gems who have risen above the clamour and created highways to bridge the chasms…and gaps.</p>
<p>Do not be confined by a gap. Come out into the meadow and flourish.</p>
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