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		By: Zineb		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Beautiful and accurate]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful and accurate</p>
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		By: Diane		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Diane]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 02:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[mashaAllah. great article! We&#039;ve all been there, so this speaks to each and every one of us. Thank you soooo much for giving us something to think about when we would otherwise be thinking about, &#039;is it over yet??&#039;. alhamdullilah!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mashaAllah. great article! We&#8217;ve all been there, so this speaks to each and every one of us. Thank you soooo much for giving us something to think about when we would otherwise be thinking about, &#8216;is it over yet??&#8217;. alhamdullilah!</p>
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		By: Suzann		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzann]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 04:10:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[sadly though, there are many well qualified, charismatic engaging speakers in our community, yet the same older immigrant men insist on giving the khutba week after week, rarely relevant to the daily life of most attendees and often almost unintelligible. Occasionally they will let an African American Salafi guy give it and then we can understand it, but it never fails to be full of advice about how we are all going to hell for following the western ways, not practicing the sunnah of polygamy, etc. Surely there must be some precedent for selecting a khatib that is capable of inspiring people?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sadly though, there are many well qualified, charismatic engaging speakers in our community, yet the same older immigrant men insist on giving the khutba week after week, rarely relevant to the daily life of most attendees and often almost unintelligible. Occasionally they will let an African American Salafi guy give it and then we can understand it, but it never fails to be full of advice about how we are all going to hell for following the western ways, not practicing the sunnah of polygamy, etc. Surely there must be some precedent for selecting a khatib that is capable of inspiring people?</p>
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		By: 2010 in Review: Full List		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[2010 in Review: Full List]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 08:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] How To Survive (and Then Benefit From) a Boring Khutbah We are sitting in the masjid. Front row, clean clothes on, ready to hear something that will inspire us, teach us, and give us gems of spiritual wisdom gleaned from the mountain of Prophethood. Our hearts fill with hope that today will be the day that a young, vibrant and dynamic speaker, or a wise, [...] [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] How To Survive (and Then Benefit From) a Boring Khutbah We are sitting in the masjid. Front row, clean clothes on, ready to hear something that will inspire us, teach us, and give us gems of spiritual wisdom gleaned from the mountain of Prophethood. Our hearts fill with hope that today will be the day that a young, vibrant and dynamic speaker, or a wise, [&#8230;] [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Fatima Mojaddidy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fatima Mojaddidy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Aug 2010 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Assalamo Alaikum. Since you have taken the time out to put the burden of going through a not so good khutbah, can you also please write an article on how to give a GOOD khutbah? I think you&#039;re cutting the Imams (teachers) too much slack and putting too much pressure on the attendees (students). I think the responsibility weighs more on the teacher than the students. The students have already done their part by attending and being present and wanting to listen and learn.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalamo Alaikum. Since you have taken the time out to put the burden of going through a not so good khutbah, can you also please write an article on how to give a GOOD khutbah? I think you&#8217;re cutting the Imams (teachers) too much slack and putting too much pressure on the attendees (students). I think the responsibility weighs more on the teacher than the students. The students have already done their part by attending and being present and wanting to listen and learn.</p>
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		By: A reading compilation « Leolumpy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A reading compilation « Leolumpy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 16:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] &#8220;Often times, we are blessed with incredible feelings of profundity, awe, and grateful servitude when worshiping Our Creator. These feelings and states are mentioned in virtually all the books of tazkiyyah (purifying the soul). However, we should always strive to worship our Lord whether that feeling comes in a prayer or not, whether the khutbah is intellectually and spiritually stimulating, or not. The worship is to obey Allah’s command, not to chase a spiritual or intellectual high. One of the greatest mistakes of the saalik (one seeking spiritual closeness to God), is to focus on the spiritual high, and not on the worship itself. If the spiritual high ever falters, he begins to doubt his worship and may even become lazy in it. He has made his goal the feeling, not the actual act of obedience and submission to Allah.&#8221; &#8211; Abdul Sattar, in an article entitled &#8220;How to Survive (and Then Benefit From) A Boring *Khutbah&#8221;, www.virtualmosque.com [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] &#8220;Often times, we are blessed with incredible feelings of profundity, awe, and grateful servitude when worshiping Our Creator. These feelings and states are mentioned in virtually all the books of tazkiyyah (purifying the soul). However, we should always strive to worship our Lord whether that feeling comes in a prayer or not, whether the khutbah is intellectually and spiritually stimulating, or not. The worship is to obey Allah’s command, not to chase a spiritual or intellectual high. One of the greatest mistakes of the saalik (one seeking spiritual closeness to God), is to focus on the spiritual high, and not on the worship itself. If the spiritual high ever falters, he begins to doubt his worship and may even become lazy in it. He has made his goal the feeling, not the actual act of obedience and submission to Allah.&#8221; &#8211; Abdul Sattar, in an article entitled &#8220;How to Survive (and Then Benefit From) A Boring *Khutbah&#8221;, <a href="http://www.virtualmosque.com" rel="ugc">http://www.virtualmosque.com</a> [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Abu Shoaib		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abu Shoaib]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 16:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Salam-o-alaikum,

I agree with the very first comment. We all have gathered our knowledge for various sources. Sometimes rather most of the times we feel that we are even better than the Khateeb making the khutbah. I did my tajweed last year (I am 33) I am not very proud of the fact that I did it so late but alhamdolilAllah I managed to complete it. My teacher always praised me, although I believe I need a lot of practice. But the point is that when I started my tajweed I also started focusing on errors of Imams and Khateebs. Then I realized that if I were any better I would have been sitting there instead because Allah knows who is worthy to lead and preach.

We need to ask for the refuge all the time from the &quot;makr&quot; of shaitaan. I heard this man saying once that shaitaan has 80,000 traps and out of those 70,000 are traps of virtues. We believe we are doing something good but in fact we are going the other way (Allah alam, this is not a confirmed saying but something that keeps me in check).

salam]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salam-o-alaikum,</p>
<p>I agree with the very first comment. We all have gathered our knowledge for various sources. Sometimes rather most of the times we feel that we are even better than the Khateeb making the khutbah. I did my tajweed last year (I am 33) I am not very proud of the fact that I did it so late but alhamdolilAllah I managed to complete it. My teacher always praised me, although I believe I need a lot of practice. But the point is that when I started my tajweed I also started focusing on errors of Imams and Khateebs. Then I realized that if I were any better I would have been sitting there instead because Allah knows who is worthy to lead and preach.</p>
<p>We need to ask for the refuge all the time from the &#8220;makr&#8221; of shaitaan. I heard this man saying once that shaitaan has 80,000 traps and out of those 70,000 are traps of virtues. We believe we are doing something good but in fact we are going the other way (Allah alam, this is not a confirmed saying but something that keeps me in check).</p>
<p>salam</p>
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		By: if.but.maybe		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 23:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In my uni days I had time to attend jumma, however 9-5 kind of put an end to that. I greatly  miss the khutbas and praying in jam&#039;at (I&#039;m a sister - so no its not fard on me!) . For all the brothers and sisters that do have the opportunity to attend jumma, feel blessed, and whenever you feel you&#039;re &#039;stuck&#039; with a boring khutba remind yourself of this beautiful hadith:

Our beloved Prophet  said that there are special angels that roam the Earth, looking for gatherings of dhikr. When they find a group they call one another and encompass the gathering in layers until the first heaven. After the gathering glorifies Allah (swt) the angels return to their lord.

Allah (swt) asks His angels, Where have you been? (Even though He already knows; when one loves someone he loves hearing his name mentioned by others). The angels will inform Allah (swt) of the name of the gathering. Allah (swt) will ask His angels &quot;What were my servants doing?&quot; The angels will reply: &quot;They were praising You, magnifying Your Name and glorifying You. Allah (swt) will ask them &quot;Have they seen Me?&quot; The angels will answer: &quot;No, By Allah! They have not seen You.&quot; Allah (swt) will say: &quot;(They are praising Me without seeing Me,) what if they had seen Me&quot; The angels would answer: &quot;O Lord, if they had seen You, they would have glorified You more intensely. Allah (swt) will say: &quot;What were they asking for?&quot; the angels will reply &quot;They were asking for Paradise!&quot; Allah (swt) will say: &quot;Have they seen Paradise?&quot; The angels will say: &quot;By Allah, no, they have not seen it.&quot; Allah (swt) will say &quot;What would they do if they had seen it?&quot; The angels will reply: &quot;If they had seen Paradise, they would become more attached and attracted to it, and would seek it with a greater zeal and enthusiasm!&quot; Allah would ask the angels What were they seeking refuge from? The angels will reply they were seeking refuge from the Hell (fire). Allah would then ask the angels: &quot;Have they seen the Hell (fire)?&quot; The angels will say: &quot;By Allah, no, they have not seen it.&quot; Allah will say &quot;What would they do if they had seen it?&quot; The angels will reply: &quot;If they had seen the Hell (fire), they would fear it even more and ask refuge from it with greater intensity. Then Allah will say to the angels I make you witnesses that I have forgiven them. One of the angels will say: &quot;O my Lord, someone was there who did not belong to that group, but came for some other need.&quot; (That person came for some purpose other than dhikr.) Allah will inform the angels that &quot;The benefits of sitting in a gathering of Dhikr are such that anyone who sits with them, for whatever reason will also have his sins forgiven (Bukhari, Muslim).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my uni days I had time to attend jumma, however 9-5 kind of put an end to that. I greatly  miss the khutbas and praying in jam&#8217;at (I&#8217;m a sister &#8211; so no its not fard on me!) . For all the brothers and sisters that do have the opportunity to attend jumma, feel blessed, and whenever you feel you&#8217;re &#8216;stuck&#8217; with a boring khutba remind yourself of this beautiful hadith:</p>
<p>Our beloved Prophet  said that there are special angels that roam the Earth, looking for gatherings of dhikr. When they find a group they call one another and encompass the gathering in layers until the first heaven. After the gathering glorifies Allah (swt) the angels return to their lord.</p>
<p>Allah (swt) asks His angels, Where have you been? (Even though He already knows; when one loves someone he loves hearing his name mentioned by others). The angels will inform Allah (swt) of the name of the gathering. Allah (swt) will ask His angels &#8220;What were my servants doing?&#8221; The angels will reply: &#8220;They were praising You, magnifying Your Name and glorifying You. Allah (swt) will ask them &#8220;Have they seen Me?&#8221; The angels will answer: &#8220;No, By Allah! They have not seen You.&#8221; Allah (swt) will say: &#8220;(They are praising Me without seeing Me,) what if they had seen Me&#8221; The angels would answer: &#8220;O Lord, if they had seen You, they would have glorified You more intensely. Allah (swt) will say: &#8220;What were they asking for?&#8221; the angels will reply &#8220;They were asking for Paradise!&#8221; Allah (swt) will say: &#8220;Have they seen Paradise?&#8221; The angels will say: &#8220;By Allah, no, they have not seen it.&#8221; Allah (swt) will say &#8220;What would they do if they had seen it?&#8221; The angels will reply: &#8220;If they had seen Paradise, they would become more attached and attracted to it, and would seek it with a greater zeal and enthusiasm!&#8221; Allah would ask the angels What were they seeking refuge from? The angels will reply they were seeking refuge from the Hell (fire). Allah would then ask the angels: &#8220;Have they seen the Hell (fire)?&#8221; The angels will say: &#8220;By Allah, no, they have not seen it.&#8221; Allah will say &#8220;What would they do if they had seen it?&#8221; The angels will reply: &#8220;If they had seen the Hell (fire), they would fear it even more and ask refuge from it with greater intensity. Then Allah will say to the angels I make you witnesses that I have forgiven them. One of the angels will say: &#8220;O my Lord, someone was there who did not belong to that group, but came for some other need.&#8221; (That person came for some purpose other than dhikr.) Allah will inform the angels that &#8220;The benefits of sitting in a gathering of Dhikr are such that anyone who sits with them, for whatever reason will also have his sins forgiven (Bukhari, Muslim).</p>
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		By: Sana		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 18:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Asalaamu Alaikum,
Excellent points!

I think one thing that would help the khutbah quality situation is if every mosque had a feedback form (online and print).

Here&#039;s a Google Doc template of a form that can be implemented at mosques:
https://docs.google.com/previewtemplate?id=0ArTNk0Z_3ojZdEZNOTRGU1E5YkhEc1cycXNfamxOLVE&#038;mode=public


Alhumdulillah, i know some different mosques that already have their own (MCA, CIMIC, ICOI...)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Asalaamu Alaikum,<br />
Excellent points!</p>
<p>I think one thing that would help the khutbah quality situation is if every mosque had a feedback form (online and print).</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a Google Doc template of a form that can be implemented at mosques:<br />
<a href="https://docs.google.com/previewtemplate?id=0ArTNk0Z_3ojZdEZNOTRGU1E5YkhEc1cycXNfamxOLVE&#038;mode=public" rel="nofollow ugc">https://docs.google.com/previewtemplate?id=0ArTNk0Z_3ojZdEZNOTRGU1E5YkhEc1cycXNfamxOLVE&#038;mode=public</a></p>
<p>Alhumdulillah, i know some different mosques that already have their own (MCA, CIMIC, ICOI&#8230;)</p>
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		By: Adnan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Adnan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 16:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Abdul,

You should give a khutba on this :P. On a more serious note, very nice reminder.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Abdul,</p>
<p>You should give a khutba on this :P. On a more serious note, very nice reminder.</p>
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