So the point is Author i am not agreed with your point.

Very wise is mr hyde 🙂

So very true. I think its not only important but desirable to marry at an earlier age. Why do the majority of the world start ‘dating’ in their teen years. There are needs that can only be fulfilled by a partner, may He bless us with halal partners.

Yes, marriage must be a priority for parents and singles alike.

However I will say that Muslims are VERY hung up on ethnicity, skin colour, immigration, a girl’s age, complete seclusion from the opposite sex, and the wishes and desires of parents. All of these hang ups are roadblocks to marriage amongst single Muslim girls raised in the West. There is a reason why the number of unmarried Muslim girls in North America over age 35 far exceeds the unmarried non Muslim female population from the same age group.

It is for this reason that I encourage all Muslim girls over 35 to consider all options for marriage, including marriage to honourable non Muslim men of the book. There is no advantage or silver lining to living alone, childless, with a lack of intimacy (a normal human need, btw), and lack of financial partner who can help you when the going gets tough. I have tried, and it’s no picnic. Being a minority in this country is hard enough, but when you are also alone, unmarried, in a world that values relationships and marriages and babies, it gets pretty lonely and sad.

Hopefully on the day if Judgement Allah the most merciful will be aware of the hang ups that plagued our parents and other Muslims in North America that prevented us from pursuing healthy Muslim marriages.