Assalamualykum warhamtulahi wabraktu,
Sister it is true that Islam is ease. That is why it i better to avoid that which is doubtful. In term of perfume often if it is like deodorant and doesn’t smell strong and keeps you fresh but but cannot be smelt by all as you walk by it is fine. the point is so that you do not cause fitnah.
As for the high heels it is about tabbaruj- we should not do as we cause a fitnah, it is enticing and beautiful and as you said we must be equal, we do not want to make it harder for men by drawing attention to ourselves. there are reason such as
1) The noise they make attracts attention.

2) They make the hips sway; attracting attention.

3) They are injurious to feet, ankles etc.

Wa’ Allahu Ahlam
sorry i posted it on the wrong question

Brother Passer-by … we should refrain from referring our heart desires as Sunnah. Could u tell me where in sunnah its mentioned that “to remove every hair in a women’s body -minus the eyebrows only”? I would very much like to know the reference for this which I believe to be incorrect.
Some of the Muslim brothers unfortunately develop habit of watching movies that are against all standard of modesty and after watching those movies consider the females presented in there as the standard or ideal of beauty. For a Muslim women the standard of beauty is being chaste and modest,their standard is not to look like the females in western or Indian movies. Calling those standards as sunnah is pure ignorance.

Sofia: just an instance i recall where…
…Allah takes a certain prophet as an intimate friend mentioned here in Quran 4:125

What’s the big deal? Either obey Allah and His Messenger or disobey Allah and His Messenger. Or, take a step further and try to remove the guilt by altering the religion of Allah

When Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, no believer has any other choice.

Sallam Allaykom sister ,

Im a psychology student and one thing you need to know is that the mechanism of men is different to those women, did you know that men have a hormone triggered only by smell which causes arousal ? Putting that aside Using deodorants is permitted in islam as it is sunnah to stay clean and hygienic and thats why its also sunnah to remove every hair in a women’s body -minus the eyebrows only-, and remember islam orders us to lower our gaze yet we are curious humans when we hear sound such as the sound of heels clinching men are forced to look…. Please if you think islam is underdeveloped look into it more and you’ll realize how each letter mentioned by our wise prophet is corresponded with science , (Not that its the reason why believe) but we do everything for the sake of Allah swt

Dear sisters lets think if bushy and natural eye brows will be in fashion ,we will adopt it very easily so why v r putting if and buts on allah command and remember Islam is a name of surrender and plz submit to a commands of ur GOD AND PROPHET(PBUH)and also make a strong belief in ur heart that Allah knows what is best for us.

salaamu alaykum
it is not about blaming each other on why and why not when these are the commands of or Lord and Prophet (saws)

…33:36 It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed in a plain error… Allahu mustaan

also Nabi Allah (saws) told us that the portion of zina for the children of adam was written, the eyes, the mouth, the ears, etc etc and this not to say that we shouldnt worry about because Allah knows best the people with diseases in their heart, but we should be mindful and fear Allah as much as we are able

and avoid the doubtful matters that we may remain blameless in our religion on the of resurrection

may Allah have mercy on us and increase us in knowledge and faith ameen

A person of knowledge has tried with good intentions to clarify and explain it with good manners and kindness. Why are we bringing men into it or worried about men in regards to it? What power does any man have over Allah or the advice of Rasullullah(SAWS)? Why are we comparing this with onions, perfume, smelling like biryani, equality of the races, etc. It’s not a debate topic where people take sides and argue their point of view.

It’s an authentic hadith. You either take it or your leave it. You either follow it or you don’t. There is no need to try to justify yourself. Accept or reject.

Sisters this hadith is a blessed advice for you from your prophet(SAWS). Leave the men out of it. It is a gift for you sister from a man who loved all the ummah and would never guide you into oppression.

And should you see your sister in Islam with plucked eyebrows, advise her with kindness and patience, IF YOU HAVE THE WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE, AND MANNERS to do so. But regardless of what she decides to do with her eyebrows, do not hate, belittle, or backbite her. Pray for her if you love her for the sake of Allah.

And there are so many other topics of such great importance that all of us could spend our time discussing and worrying about. I love you all for the Sake of Allah. May Allah guide and forgive everyone. Forgive me if I have said something that offended you.