Comments on: Married While Hijabi?

By: Kinza

Kinza — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:58:12 +0000

Leave him sister. He is not your type.

By: yakub

yakub — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 08:26:31 +0000

In reply to Sarah Amena. the same way woman struggle to wear hijab it would be the same for men but the beard.

By: yakub

yakub — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 08:16:16 +0000

i know this situation is old now but, hopefully the sister ishallah has moved on and married someone better suited for her.

hijab hijab hiajb ONLY for woman?
how about the MEN?
us dudes?
IF the guys atittude towards hijab is like that (in the article) then how do you think his (internal) hijab is?

May Allah protect us from the accursed Shytan!

By: smiles

smiles — Thu, 18 Aug 2011 22:19:24 +0000

this is wonderful advice

By: sunniswagger

sunniswagger — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 08:34:13 +0000

Beloved sister in Islam.. lose this guy like a bad habit.. before you make a grave mistake and place man above Allah.. i mean hijab is fard..salat is fard he might as well say dont make salat anymore because they are both the fard and Allahs commands.. and our duty as muslims to observe.. we enjoin in good and forbid in evil..

By: Sana

Sana — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 06:40:15 +0000

If he tells you to stop wearing Hijab, drop him like a bad habit. We cannot uphold the created one’s wishes over the creator.

By: tabassum

tabassum — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 19:19:55 +0000

if i was you i would call off the engagement because religion always comes first… he cant tell you to stop wearing the hijab! you should marry someone that respects you for what you wear… not to tell you to disobey Allah.

By: fatimah

fatimah — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 23:55:21 +0000

there is no one worthy of worship except Allah. Allah has made Hijab fard on women, make istikhara about this potential husband maybe you can make his imaan stronger or will he be an obstacle to your imaan?. Do not disobey Allah to please a person. Do you want to be married to someone who does not want you to obey Allah?

By: Sarah Amena

Sarah Amena — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 01:49:02 +0000

Salam Sisters,

Thank you soooo much for the support and guidance, that is exactly what I was searching for, SubanAllah that I found exactly what I needed. I made a commitment to myself, to be wearing hijab by the 1st of Ramadan and hopefully sooner Inshallah 🙂
Zienab ~ Thank you so much for understanding exactly what I am feeling, at least I know that my feelings aren’t completely bizarre 🙂

pashamina ~ Thank you for the prayers 🙂 I really feel connected to my fellow Muslims, Thank you and may Allah give us all guidance <3

By: Zienab

Zienab — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 19:30:47 +0000

In reply to Sarah Amena.

Salaam sister,

I remember this EXACT feeling when I was thinking about putting on the hijab. You sit there worrying about how ppl will react after having seen you without hijab for so long. It’s not even that you expect ppl to start shooting spit wads at you…. You just have no idea what to expect. Questions, perhaps. Passing comments. Strange looks…

Though Br. Waris said it perfectly, I’d also like to say a few things about the worldly experience of putting on the hijab. Really, truly… it’s like diving into a pool. You KNOW in your heart that you want to get wet. But uncertain, you hedge your bets and stay on the perimeter, testing the water with your feet. You simply prolong the fear, and who knows how long you have on this earth. The fact is, you just have to dive!!! Yeah the first few moments are nerve-wracking. But it will become like your skin iA. But you have to jump first! Don’t sweat it sister! The water is warm, and Allah is on your side in all that you do for His sake 🙂