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		By: Are women pressured by society? &#124; thecurseofthecreative		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Are women pressured by society? &#124; thecurseofthecreative]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2015 22:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] http://www.virtualmosque.com/society/media/the-pressure-to-look-right/ [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] <a href="http://www.virtualmosque.com/society/media/the-pressure-to-look-right/" rel="ugc">http://www.virtualmosque.com/society/media/the-pressure-to-look-right/</a> [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: mona		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mona]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2013 17:01:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[agree 100%
I don&#039;t understand society. Why is it compulsory for a woman to look &#039;pretty&#039; 24x7? Will the earth stop rotating if they fail to attract any men?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>agree 100%<br />
I don&#8217;t understand society. Why is it compulsory for a woman to look &#8216;pretty&#8217; 24&#215;7? Will the earth stop rotating if they fail to attract any men?</p>
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		By: Research &#124;		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Research &#124;]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Aug 2013 00:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] I found this article which relates to a story regarding a girls depression caused by the pressure of her peers to look and dress a certain way. This is the link to the article: http://www.virtualmosque.com/society/media/the-pressure-to-look-right/ [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] I found this article which relates to a story regarding a girls depression caused by the pressure of her peers to look and dress a certain way. This is the link to the article: <a href="http://www.virtualmosque.com/society/media/the-pressure-to-look-right/" rel="ugc">http://www.virtualmosque.com/society/media/the-pressure-to-look-right/</a> [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Kirana		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kirana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 10:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[:) be a techie. oh, occasionally when meeting a client or something one would have to smarten up some, but i get away with a lot of leeway - i don&#039;t really have to think about whether an outfit is &#039;smart&#039; or &#039;smart casual&#039;, makeup or no, nobody expects techies to look &#039;flirty&#039; and no one notices if a techie looks &#039;prudish&#039; that day. none of us in the team probably can remember any article of clothing each other owns, despite it probably having been worn countless times in the year in plain sight of all of us. it&#039;s great. no pressure in the least, among technical people. well, at least where i am. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>🙂 be a techie. oh, occasionally when meeting a client or something one would have to smarten up some, but i get away with a lot of leeway &#8211; i don&#8217;t really have to think about whether an outfit is &#8216;smart&#8217; or &#8216;smart casual&#8217;, makeup or no, nobody expects techies to look &#8216;flirty&#8217; and no one notices if a techie looks &#8216;prudish&#8217; that day. none of us in the team probably can remember any article of clothing each other owns, despite it probably having been worn countless times in the year in plain sight of all of us. it&#8217;s great. no pressure in the least, among technical people. well, at least where i am. 🙂</p>
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		By: fezz		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 18:24:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[True article. Its probably worth mentioning that some women do actually exploit themselves in order to get that &quot;extra edge&quot; in the workplace, more attention or emotionally manipulate others to secure that better promotion. This is regardless of whatever external pressure is applied on them; so in a sense its not always &quot;society&#039;s&quot; problem (although maybe its a intertwined vicious cycle)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True article. Its probably worth mentioning that some women do actually exploit themselves in order to get that &#8220;extra edge&#8221; in the workplace, more attention or emotionally manipulate others to secure that better promotion. This is regardless of whatever external pressure is applied on them; so in a sense its not always &#8220;society&#8217;s&#8221; problem (although maybe its a intertwined vicious cycle)</p>
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		By: Hyde		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Hyde]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 18:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/youth/the-pressure-to-look-right/#comment-28704&quot;&gt;Jill&lt;/a&gt;.

Agree. Especially when you come under radar of the haraam police.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/youth/the-pressure-to-look-right/#comment-28704">Jill</a>.</p>
<p>Agree. Especially when you come under radar of the haraam police.</p>
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		By: Abdullah		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abdullah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 17:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I believe that similar sentiments could be expressed about men, too. We, too, are under pressure to conform to look and act in certain ways that can be very debilitating when they go against one&#039;s natural disposition.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe that similar sentiments could be expressed about men, too. We, too, are under pressure to conform to look and act in certain ways that can be very debilitating when they go against one&#8217;s natural disposition.</p>
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		By: ZAI		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ZAI]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 02:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/youth/the-pressure-to-look-right/#comment-28704&quot;&gt;Jill&lt;/a&gt;.

100% agree.
The religious inverse is also a danger as I said in my own comment...and that inverse can also become an obsessive preoccupation with women&#039;s sexuality and what defines it...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/youth/the-pressure-to-look-right/#comment-28704">Jill</a>.</p>
<p>100% agree.<br />
The religious inverse is also a danger as I said in my own comment&#8230;and that inverse can also become an obsessive preoccupation with women&#8217;s sexuality and what defines it&#8230;</p>
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		By: ZAI		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ZAI]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 22:14:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with the sentiments about the demands of an overly sexualized and commercialized society. I also agree with the fact that Islamic modesty and standards of dress can free a person from this mentality and reality...

With a disclaimer of course: that it is done of a woman&#039;s own FREE WILL. 

If however it is mandated by a government, political/armed group or even through intense social/marital pressure...then doesn&#039;t it just become the inverse of the overly sexualized society wherein a woman is constantly worried and obsessed about whether she is covered well enough or religious enough? Same judgements, criticisms, etc. if she is not attainting the standard?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the sentiments about the demands of an overly sexualized and commercialized society. I also agree with the fact that Islamic modesty and standards of dress can free a person from this mentality and reality&#8230;</p>
<p>With a disclaimer of course: that it is done of a woman&#8217;s own FREE WILL. </p>
<p>If however it is mandated by a government, political/armed group or even through intense social/marital pressure&#8230;then doesn&#8217;t it just become the inverse of the overly sexualized society wherein a woman is constantly worried and obsessed about whether she is covered well enough or religious enough? Same judgements, criticisms, etc. if she is not attainting the standard?</p>
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		By: Jill		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 21:57:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Assalamu alaykum,

Great article! While this topic has been explored by our community many times, it&#039;s always nice to get a reminder of this aspect of hijab.

However, I would also note that the over-sexualization of our culture has not failed to hit our community either in some respects. It seems that so many people in our community are more and more concerned with women&#039;s appearance on the other side of the coin. How well is her hijab pinned? Is there a sliver of skin showing? Is a stray hair peeking out somewhere? How tight or loose is her clothing? If any of these aspects of her dress are less than perfect, she is regarded as some horrible sinner with no redeeming qualities. And if she doesn&#039;t wear hijab, well, forget about it. It seems like these days how a woman looks determines how good of a Muslim she is, with no other factors taken into account. While more and more men seem to have forgotten their own hijab, women have been placed more and more under the microscope. Men are less likely to take responsibility for modesty and lowering their gaze and more apt to blaming a woman for dressing &quot;immodestly.&quot; So while I applaud this article&#039;s stance on one side of this issue, the other side ought to be discussed as well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalamu alaykum,</p>
<p>Great article! While this topic has been explored by our community many times, it&#8217;s always nice to get a reminder of this aspect of hijab.</p>
<p>However, I would also note that the over-sexualization of our culture has not failed to hit our community either in some respects. It seems that so many people in our community are more and more concerned with women&#8217;s appearance on the other side of the coin. How well is her hijab pinned? Is there a sliver of skin showing? Is a stray hair peeking out somewhere? How tight or loose is her clothing? If any of these aspects of her dress are less than perfect, she is regarded as some horrible sinner with no redeeming qualities. And if she doesn&#8217;t wear hijab, well, forget about it. It seems like these days how a woman looks determines how good of a Muslim she is, with no other factors taken into account. While more and more men seem to have forgotten their own hijab, women have been placed more and more under the microscope. Men are less likely to take responsibility for modesty and lowering their gaze and more apt to blaming a woman for dressing &#8220;immodestly.&#8221; So while I applaud this article&#8217;s stance on one side of this issue, the other side ought to be discussed as well.</p>
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