I am one of the many people who, on multiple occasions, bemoaned the current status of Muslims around the world for things ranging from anti-shari`ah laws in the U.S. to headscarf bans in Europe to anti-freedom in parts of the “Muslim” world. I used to cry over how we were once a strong, vibrant, intellectual community. How we were once beacons of light in the dark ages and how we led the world in sciences, arts and philosophy. For years, I felt frustrated, helpless and angry at our current status. After all, aren’t we “the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind” (Qur’an 3:110)? Out of my frustration, I started distancing myself from my community, the community whose status disappointed me. I barely maintained my prayers, I fasted during Ramadan begrudgingly, and I tried to identify myself with many things other than Islam. I was in this free fall until I came across a hadeeth (record of the words of the Prophet ﷺ, peace be upon him) that I have read many times before:
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم المؤمن القوي خير عند الله من المؤمن الضعيف وفي كل خير
Imam Muslim reported that Abu Hurayrah has narrated that the Prophet ﷺ has said: “A strong believer is better and dearer/more loved by Allah than a weak believer and both are good.”
I never paid much attention to this hadeeth but this time it made me stop and think. Why is it that, even among the believers, the stronger one is more beloved to Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He)? Islam, in all of its forms of worship, engrains in us a sense of community. As we all know, it is better to pray in congregation, more blessed to break our fast with others, and our money is purified by sharing it with those in need. So why then does this hadeeth seem to encourage us to compete as individuals? So I started reading and learning more and I came across this other hadeeth:
عن أبي موسى الأشعري رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : “المؤمن للمؤمن كالبنيان يَشُدُّ بعضُه بعضاً – وشبك بين أصابعه” متفق عليه.
Abu Musa Al-Ashaari narrates that the Prophet ﷺ has said, “Believers are like a structure, parts of which support one another.”
That’s it! A strong believer is more beloved to Allah (swt) because every believer is a building block in the structure we call the ummah (community). It is this sense of individual responsibility within the collective community that made me change my course. Instead of lamenting over the past, and not paying any attention to the present, I started to strengthen myself both spiritually and physically. I started maintaining my prayers on time, longing for siyam (fasting), and reading more of and about the Qur’an. I even started paying more attention to my health regarding what I eat and how often I exercise. After all, to continue performing my Islamic duties I must be physically fit as well.
I soon found myself more at peace yet wanting more. So I started praying at the masjid hoping to gain more reward for the congregational prayer. But I found something unexpected. I found others, like me, working on strengthening themselves. Together we created an atmosphere of positive reinforcement and support. If one failed to make it to the masjid a few days in a row, someone would call to make sure all is well. We began to recognize each individual’s strength and encouraged each other to share it with the group. Some knew how to recite the Qur’an well; others knew tafseer (explanation of the Qur’an), hadeeth or seerah (life of the Prophet ﷺ), and still others were passionate about community outreach. Even though we were a few, we drew upon each other’s strengths and created halaqahs (study circles). These halaqahs grew in numbers. Eventually the community became stronger, more aware of itself and its role within society.
Now instead of crying over the status of the ummah I see how seemingly small changes can have a profound, positive effect. I recognize that I as an individual have a responsibility not only towards myself but towards the greater community. I now fully understand what Allah (swt) says,
إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنْفُسِهِمْ
“Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.”
Assalaamu alaikum 🙂
SubhanAllah! There are so many of us that are awakening to this reality!
Jazak Allah kheir for the excellent reminder 🙂
Jazakallah khair for this very meaningful post
Awesome reminder. jzk
keep it up, msA
needed to read that =)
MashAllah this is a really enlightening article! Sub7anAllah, the last part gave me a real sense of comfort: “Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.”
This makes me reflect on the atrocities that are occurring in the Muslim world today and think they must be a wake up call to the Muslimeen living in those lands (wAllahu a3lam). If this is indeed the case, it is a blessing in disguise. May God guide us all to the right path so that we may strengthen our ummah, and so that we may find peace & happiness in this world and in the hereafter. Ameen.
Jazaka Allahu Khairun for sharing!
SubhanAllah, you summed up my past life nicely which InshaAllah won’t repeat itself.
Allah Almighty made me learn that there is no use in lamenting your fate, instead, one should strive to better self first than to bother about other’s mistakes and shortcomings.
JazakAllah for the nice and touching post:)
I think experiences and challenges should have msde us a better person. Remember our goal, to get blessings from Allah.
Masha’Allah this was a great read. I completely related to this post and am now rethinking the way I’ve approached community, the status of Muslims today, and my role in the ummah these past few months. Insha’Allah I hope to change for the better asap. Jazakallah khair for this article!
Alhamdulilah for your posting – I too feel/felt this way for many years – even now as I type, I’m getting teary-eyed – it is so frustrating sometimes knowing that we Muslims could/can be so much more!!! Can you/others please provide more sources for reading/support for why it is so hard to work with Muslims on a daily basis? I love being Muslim, but some days all I see are the problems and fitnah and not the blessings – too many times I have been turned off by the actions of the members of my community, but I still keep coming back because of the few brothers and sisters who really are genuine. Shuk’ron and please make dua’ for me and our communities, we need to be more united not divided by culture or race or income.